Would you date someone 14 years older than you?
I am 63 she is 77. she also is a hoarder.
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I am 63 she is 77. she also is a hoarder.
She invited me over for homemade Rubens. I walked into a hoarder's apartment. Suffocated with trinkets, knick-knacks, and a refrigerator full of food, spoiled, old leftovers, etc.. she won't clean nor throw anything away! But wants me to stay with her all the time.
I lived with a hoarder with two years. She was over 250lbs and rarely bathed. She essentially tricked me into being her maid by moving in. Her house was so bad she actually lost custody of her (very underweight) children before I had moved in.
Hoarding is a sign of mental illness. As an older person I would be very concerned for your physical and mental health for you to get involved with her.
How about 30, 40/70 60/30 obviously I don't think 40/10 or even 45/15 is okay, however, once the youngest of the pairing hits late 20s or over 30, then I think it is totally up to them. Anything over 10 years difference to me has seemed to have problems but as I get older I can see opening those doors a little more.