Would you date a man who was nice but?
Let's pretend you're really into this guy. He's kind, smart, hilarious and loyal. You laugh a lot, have fun together but he's lazy with his appearance. He's 25 but he's going bald, the little hair that he has is half grey, he's obese and when you hint about things like hair and weight in a polite way i.e I wonder what you'd look like with hair, do you want to join a gym with me? And he says he doesn't care about his appearance. What do you do? He looks like he could be your Dad because he already let himself go at 25 and he doesn't care about how he dresses either aka he doesn't put any effort.
Even going to a nice fancy restaurant he just wears a wrinkly plain white shirt that clings to his belly but he's a really nice guy, the nicest you've met and again he can make you laugh so hard you cry every time you're with him