Worry about yourself, or if your doing something wrong, in any sense??

It's good to be self-conscious to some extent, but not to the point to where it's an obsession.

Yeah, but it doesn't make you very happy. Many people have done that at one time or another. What good does worrying do hm?

I'm totally like that. Always worrying about what people think. All i care about is what people think about me. I always feel like I'm not good enough, not pretty enough and always try to ""make myself perfect for people"". I feel so bad when i get a negative comment from anyone. It's really disturbing and can lead to depression. I've recently been advised that it doesn't really matter what people think about you but what God thinks about you and what you think about yourself. If your friends can't accept you for who you are, then they aren't really your friends. This is the concept i'm currently trying to adopt and honestly, it takes a whole lot of weight from my shoulders. You should try it too, could be helpful

I've been like that for all my life, except recently, when I discovered that I'm spending so much time obsessing over what people thought of me, instead of just being myself. It's horrible to torment yourself with that! My friends are my friends and will always love me e.g. If I decide to cancel a lunch date with someone, they're not going to stop being a friend! People love you for just being YOU. Try to stop worrying what others think and put yourself first honey, because YOU are in charge of your own happiness.

I've been like that too, most of my life. Though lately I'm trying not to care so much about what others think of me.