Why don't I feel anything when my girlfriend kisses me?

So, I've been dating this girl for a year and I love her to death. When I think about losing her or having her not with me it makes me feel horrible. When I look at her and hold her I feel attracted to her, I get excited thinking about kissing her... but once it happens I feel not really anything special. Just lips touching other lips. When she kisses or bites my neck I don't feel anything either, and it makes frustrated because I know when I do the same to her she definitely reacts to it.

There's a lot more i could probably say here but if I did I'd be writing a goddamn book lol. So... is this normal? Am I in denial? Is she just bad at it? Please give me your thoughts on this.

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 10 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • Maybe your lips are not that sensitive. Don't worry about it. Different people have different erogenous zones.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Same issue I had. Some people just don't get stimulation or satisfaction from such. Doesn't mean you don't love her. It's just your body has different sensory points then her

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • well u might have become used to kissing her so now it might feel normal

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Hope this gets sorted. Can you still get sexually aroused for her in other ways?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • You r planning something else sorry to say but more like dumping looking forward to cheat on her, again sorry no offense...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    • -
    • No offence taken. I can see why you'd think that that's a possibility but I don't plan on doing anything like that. I still love her and I want to be with her, I just have to figure my shit out a bit.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
Add A Comment