Why do guys like snotty average girls better than good pretty ones?

Why is it that when you have:

Girl A: average or slightly below average natural looks (when dolled up, average or maybe slightly above average on a good day, but still not any better than most girls), snotty and cocky attitude who acts like she's better and hotter than other girls and God's gift to men, always flirting around even when she's in a relationship, social media obsessed and always showing off her body

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Girl B: above average natural looks, very down to Earth and doesn't think she's better than anyone else, loyal, and doesn't feel the need to constantly be showing off or running her mouth

Everyone always sucks up to and goes after Girl A? They don't have great personalities, they're not that pretty, they're trouble when it comes to relationships... just why???

I even see gorgeous girls devoted to their bfs/husbands get left for Girl A's who are a downgrade in every way.

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Based on 17 votes (5 yes)
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  • KholatKhult

    Why are “good girls” caring about what those types of guys like anyway? Don’t pick a man who has his priorities in the wrong place and you won’t have this problem

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  • megadriver

    Same reason why lots of girls go after the garbage "bad boy" wannabe and often tolerate tons of abuse for no reason. Cause they are hard to get, don't give a fuck and girls think they can change them.

    I hated that in school... "Oooh, he smokes, he's got a tattoo, he wears ghetto style baggy pants and his shirt is only 1/3 tucked in, he spits in the school corridor, he swears a lot, he steals money from his parents and gambles, OMG dat iz so hot!"

    None of those things are good, none of those things will benefit you in life, yet girls flock for these losers when they are young and only realize their mistakes around their mid 20s and either go after normal men, or start going on a rant that "all men are crap".

    I was one of the "uncool kids", I did well in school, I was into art, science and had future plans for my life. My first girlfriend was very shy nerdy and terrible at sex. It wasn't until college, where girls started changing their priorities, wanting a man who is in control of his life, instead of some stupid punk slacker that usually ends up washing cars, or flipping burgers at mcdonalds.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Because nice people often finish last, the phrase didn’t just fall out of the sky. There’s a reason that stereotypes came to exist in the first place, because it was frequently noticed.

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  • dimitrismanou12

    Because girl B doesn't exist.

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  • JustJazzin

    What in the world? I would never go to Girl A.. I will take Girl B any day of the week. She doesn’t even have to be drop dead gorgeous and always dolled up either. It’s whats inside that counts. I’ve had the so called “10” girls and I’ve had what some guys may refer to as a “7” or “8” .. i think it’s sad that society has us basing relationships primarily on appearance nowadays. Give me a wonderful personality and a cute girl who is sweet over a trouble making floozy any time. If people are basing relationships solely on appearance, it’ll never last

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  • Tingles18

    I personally think that it's the trashy guys that are into trashy girls, but unfortunately the world is full of trashy people, and that's what can make things seem like everybody prefers the trashy ones.

    Heck, trashiness even seems to be a norm, and I hate it how we "good" people are always underestimated and thought as weak or something like that. It even feels discriminatory somehow...

    Many "good" and low maintenance people are confident and strong enough.

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  • thepuppet

    Try to find the right kind of guy then. Guys wonder the same thing reversed.

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  • SweetElis

    I think it's too shallow to guess personality based on looks

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    • I'm not guessing personality based on looks I'm going by real life situations I've seen..

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  • my_life_my_way

    Guys are mainly attracted to confident girls. To be honest I’m a bit wary of guys who like ‘good’ or shy girls because from my experience, they’re usually just looking for someone naive who they can manipulate and control.

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    • Tingles18

      I think "good" girls can be just as confident and strong too.

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  • freelarking

    What type of girl is OP?

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    Maybe girl A is more fun

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  • Clunk42

    My guess would be that Girl B probably doesn't talk enough, so people would think she's not interested or is boring.

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    • ellnell

      I'm a quiet woman and on the contrary all men i've met seems to love that. They think I seem more down to earth due to it, even the social guys. Could be cultural etc though. Saw a post on a local forum to me not too long ago where a guy was complaining about that Girl A-type women and a lot of guys agreed with him. I also notice that most Girl A-women are single, like all those types of women I went to school with are single whereas the women more similar to myself are or has been in longterm relationships. Although, gotta admit, it happens a lot that men thinks i'm not interested so I gotta convince them I really am lol.

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    • Mammal-lover

      Pretty much how it goes, od is to shy or clingy or something. Its always something

      Or owns to manger stuffies while being to shy and to clingy..

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    They're an easier lay.

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  • controversy

    People value those things which are hard to attain .

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    • What things?

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      • controversy

        like people who play/are tough to get.

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        • Oh ya I can see that. Idk why they like it tho

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  • notsaying4life

    Maybe they’re too shy,intimidating or boring could be one of those or many other factors

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  • jethro

    Ok I get it now. You are Girl B (at least think that you are) and Girl A, just got the attention and walked away with the guy that you are hot for. Is that close to being correct? Perhaps that attitude is being emitted by your pheromones. And that just makes Girl A or any other girl all the more attractive to other people when you are there. Try being more like Girl A and you will be happier. Besides, things will get better once you are a teenager.

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    • No I see it happen to other girls and it happened to my friend. She got left for a Girl A after she was devoted to her bf and great to him. We're in our 20s and I don't think anyone should try to be a snotty person who thinks they're better than everyone and acts like an attention whore on social media for validation lol but if you like girls who aren't even pretty and have 12yo personalities who are low self esteem attention whores and fuck other guys at the drop of a dime ig there's not much can be done to change your mind 🤷‍♀️

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      • jethro

        "It happened to your friend". Yea right, now that's believable. You are so jealous of Girl A for catching your crush that you can't even see straight. Like the hill in front of you, get over it and find someone else. Your crush is gone.

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        • I'm telling the truth but ok lol. I don't even have a crush either lmao. Lemme guess, you're a Girl A and you're triggered by this post bc deep down you know you really ain't hot shit? Or you're with a Girl A and realize your girl ain't no prize after all and is prob fucking your best friend rn?

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          • jethro

            Hilarious. Was that the troll version of "I know you are but what am I"?

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            • Nah just figured if you're gonna be a troll and be hateful on my post for no reason I'll troll back lol. What triggered you about my post anyway

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