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Is it that problematic to be never involved in relationship with anyone? I do feel intense sadness at times and hard to shake off desires to experiment with mind altering substances, in most case scenarios the act of smoking high quality bud. I don't know if it's the relationship that I want or the substances.
If someone is 40+ and never been married, doesnt have a girlfriend, or has been divorced several times you are gonna wonder why. Sometimes having a significant other atleast shows that atleast someone in this universe can stand them enough to marry them. That speaks for something.
I wouldnt judge a person for it but my guard may be up abit and ill watch them more. Another big one for me is a man that doesnt have a relationship with his kids. Thats bigger than never being married.
Been with the diagnosis title of 'Aspergers Syndrome' orbiting around my head for around 15 years or so. So it pretty much makes sense why I end up in such situations with life.
See it turns out the stereotype worked in your case. You do have something going on, but uts not that big of a deal tho as long as you're nice to people they should treat you well. Just keep looking you will find someone. Theres so many people out there.
I'd suggest the mind altering drugs are Not help. just doing long teen damage. I think relationship coaches are a real thing maybe try one.
50 and then some, never married or had a boyfriend and never will. Don't want one, don't need one. And don't get me started on children. I decided at the age of 8 I didn't want any and don't like them anyway. And that's how it will stay. My choice, my business. I don't organise my life around anyone else (except my cat).
As someone who is single by choice and plans to remain that way, the best thing you can do is quit caring about what others think. I know it's easier said than done, but it doesn't really matter what they think as long as you're satisfied with your life (or even if you aren't; really, it's nobody's business). There will always be people who disapprove of the way you live your life no matter what you do.
In my experience, not many people seem to care that I'm not in a relationship and haven't been in one for years, and although I occasionally am asked if I'm seeing anyone, they don't seem to think anything of it when I say, "No, I just prefer being alone". I think the only people who would look down on someone for simply not being in a relationship likely have issues of their own.
If you do want a relationship, there's nothing wrong with seeking one out, either. Just don't jump into the first relationship opportunity you come across only for the sake of not being alone/being in a relationship. That very rarely works out and usually leaves both people feeling frustrated and hurt. Finding a relationship you want to be in may take time, but will be worth the wait. As far as not knowing what you want, sorry that I can't be of much help there. Sometimes life has spots where it feels like something is missing and you don't know what it is, and it can be incredibly frustrating.
I honestly do not care what people do with themselves. I'm not going to delve into the hundreds of reasons on why someone might not want to be married or have someone in their life.
Intelligence quotient is not of my interest, I just want to live a life since i'm not looking into studying something hard and eventually someone naturally better will come up so it doesn't matter how much IQ someone has. I'm not getting into IQ at all.
I've been digging up the internet for a lot of resources regarding marijuana and most likely searching for it's ups and researches that suggest it's use is benign to health and even beneficial , and more likely rejecting the studies that suggest it may lead to IQ point loss and cognitive decline in general, the studies which i'm not so much a fan of.