When i go off birth control i get into s&m

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OK this isn't a joke but it sounds weird.
I have been taking birth control for about 5 years on and off. Most of the time I have "normal" sex drive but Ive noticed a few times when I stop taking birth control I get a lot more sexual and want to me the dominant one. I enjoy the thought of hitting/whipping/tying up a male and will watch all these kinds of videos. I haven't done it for real because I don't want to freak out my partner. Is it normal to get very turned on my dominating/hurting a man when youre not on birth control?

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  • richmanjoe
    9 years ago

    BC reduces the libido. Newsflash: The S&M IS your normal sex drive. Have fun!

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  • stuartiannaylor
    9 years ago

    I have had this happen to myself with my ex. The councillor said it was a reaction to inadequacy. Coming off birth control and becoming more fertile increases this.
    Subconsciously you react by trying to hurt the man.
    I ended up with a hernia!

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  • Lonely2
    9 years ago

    Women get a higher sex drive right before and during ovulation...both testosterone and estogen are increased...but surprisingly it is testosterone that is mostly responsible for sex drive in women....if your test goes up it could make you not only more horny but more dominant as well...but you must have a real spike...I dont think it would cause bdsm behavior, but if you have that tendency to begin with , it could enhance it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Its obviously something hormonal, although I don't get all the BDSM stuff.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I guess. when I don't take them I don't think about that kind of thing but when Im off them I watch it like guys watch porn! It kind of bothers me.

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