What would you do if a homeless child came outside your house?

And they went asking if you could give them food but also a place to temporarily stay.

What would you do?

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  • RoseIsabella

    I would ask them to wait for a while, then I would call 911, and let the authorities handle the matter.

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    • SwickDinging

      This is the right thing to do. Anyone who doesn't call the authorities is being very irresponsible.

      You can still make the kid something to eat and be nice about it while they wait, but the authorities need to come and collect the child. It's sad but necessary.

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    • bbrown95

      I would do the same.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Right on!

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    • Somenormie

      If this was me I would too contact the appropriate peeps, if it is rainy I would let them in for the day. However if wanting to adopt a child legal paperwork has to be done ( in many cases this can take ages to do. ), if in any case the child is an orphan they can be adopted.

      If anything taking a random homeless child is like taking a stray cat you just found in roaming around in your house.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I love cats, but I wouldn't take in a stray, because I wouldn't want anyone to attempt to dominate my cat. Honestly, I have no desire to adopt a child, I never have felt called to do so, and probably never will.

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  • GeekyGold

    I would give them food but don’t invite them in, and call the cops. Depending on the weather I might give them a blanket to stay warm. The world is too fucked up for me to trust a stranger enough to let into my home. Yeah it’s a child but this doesn’t mean they aren’t being manipulated or forced into acting hungry and sad to be let in and open the door to whoever they are working for when I’m not looking.

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    • bbrown95

      Good point. It's unfortunately not beyond people to use kids as ploys to gain access to someone or somewhere. It's sick and it would be really hard to leave a child outside in the cold, but people are crazy and it's a dangerous world.

      I've always been told to never open the door to a random stranger asking to be let in, use the phone, etc., but to instead offer to make a call for help for them through the door. I feel I can never be too careful and plan to stick to that. To be honest, I live in a neighborhood in a city surrounded by public places full of people that could help (and would be a safer choice on their part than stopping by a random house), including a Wal-Mart across the highway that is open 24/7 (and a walk-in medical clinic nearby, also open 24/7), plus my house would be an odd choice for someone stopping to ask for help, so I would find it suspicious for someone to randomly come to my house to ask for assistance unless they were a neighbor.

      I have also heard (I can't remember if this was just a rumor or not, but I remember hearing something about it) that criminals have used baby crying noises in order to try to lure victims out of their houses. If it's true, that's pretty freaky considering most people would go out looking around without even stopping to think about it! It also just makes me really sad to think that there are people out there wanting to hurt good-hearted people just trying to make sure another person is okay/protect them.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yes, I have no reason to let a random stranger in my home. A lot of home invaders will use a child, or other vulnerable person as a decoy/bait to gain entrance to one's home.

        I would just tell the person to wait for a moment, and then call 911. I would also NEVER tell the person outside my door that I called the authorities.

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        • bbrown95

          Very true! Definitely a smart idea not to tell them you called the authorities, as well!

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          • RoseIsabella

            I figure if a stranger shows up at my front door then they ought to expect me to be careful.

            Shit, whenever I get phone calls from private phone numbers I either don't answer, or I answer by saying, "who is this calling me from a private/blocked number". I honestly don't feel any obligation to be overly polite, or friendly when I see an unfamiliar phone number, and especially NOT a private, or blocked number.

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            • bbrown95

              I don't blame you at all for that! I am the same way with those numbers, too!

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    I'd give it food. But then doing anything other than calling the police or social services could get you in serious trouble with the police. Although it would be cool to let it stay with you and help it yourself, life isn't a fairytale unfortunately, and that would be seen as really inappropriate nowadays. Besides, it would be best for the child in the long term to be properly taken care of by the authorities.

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  • olderdude-xx

    If someone in real need appears at my door (or even out and about) I will often provide immediate assistance. I've done that all my life (and food is a common item).

    In the case of a homeless child asking for food; unless they appeared threatening I would indeed let them into the house and start to feed them food.

    While food was warming up or cooking (I have lots of meals frozen in the freezer) I'd be asking questions about where they live and their parents, relatives, etc.

    Depending on the response I would then call their parents or relatives, or call the local police to report that I had such a person in my house, was feeding them, etc. and would like to talk to an appropriate public assistance person about options.

    If my wife was there we might discuss options. It would not be unusual for us to offer for a person to spend the night until we could reunite them with relatives.

    I've actually picked up hitch hikers and taken them home, or taken in people for the night in the past, fed them, washed their clothing, and sent them on their way the next day with several days of food, and perhaps some spending money. I have reunited a person with relatives (we met about half way) to get a person to care and safety within their family as well.

    I have several times picked up people off the side of the highway (where someone else kicked them out of a vehicle between cities) and took care of them (usually going out of my way to get them to a safe place they know). 2 of these cases had me calling the police in the next major city and arranging to be directed to an appropriate homeless shelter for the person (and in one case when the officer asked me if the young lady was a minor I had to tell them I did not know - and it was possible; and the officer arranged for me to get her to a homeless shelter where they could handle minors if she was one).

    I believe that the reason I'm on this earth is to take care of people. As long as they do not threaten me - I do what I can.

    I've never had the police or social services criticize me for assisting and ensuring a person gets to an appropriate safe environment. In fact, they complement and thank me for caring and doing what I am doing. Anytime I've asked to talk to someone about options... they have always talked about options with me. No one has ever told me I could not have someone stay overnight until the next day when normal social services could become involved.

    Has there been some "interesting" situations. Yes (I had one person tell me that I'd treated him very fairly without judgment and he turned over his guns to me for safe keeping during the night so I would not worry much. I returned them to him the next morning (I'm used to handling guns), fed him a good breakfast, packed a few days of sandwiches and other snacks, and drove him 40 miles to an interstate he wanted to hitchhike on to get several states down the road where he had a friend he could stay with).

    I feel I have been blessed by all the responses on this.

    Do good... it pays off in many ways...

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  • bigbudchonga

    Poke him with a large stick until he moved along.

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    Sell them off for scientific research.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    put em to work choppin firewood

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  • LondonGoldman

    Feed it and call CPS. Then talk my wife out of wanting to adopt it.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Thanks!

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  • chuy

    Bring him/her in from the cold, feed him/her. call CPS and the COPS then let them take over.

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  • ellnell

    I'd offer some food and I dont know call the red cross or something.

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  • a-curious-bunny

    Food sure but they ain't stepping one foot in my house.

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  • TheDustyMagician

    I would ask where the parents are and depending on the situation I would allow to stay a couple of days in my house.

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    • Fayerie

      Well if they didn’t know where their parents were then you should take them to the authorities, and the authorities will help find their parents from there and give them housing until then. So you wouldn’t have to keep the child there for a few days.
      Edit: also I think if the authorities or parents found out you let them like sleep over at your house, the parents could possibly press charges, and that would get real messy. I love children but I understand parents can be super protective, I would be concerned as well if I didn’t know who my child was staying with. It’s just best not to risk trouble.

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      • TheDustyMagician

        When I said depending on the situation I meant if the kid parents are bad people/abusive or if the kid had no parents at all (orphan) the I would let the kid stay in my house until I sorted the situation.

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  • farkelu

    If a homeless child came outside my house, I'd offer him or her a tissue to clean up with ;-)

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  • Sell him/her into slavery.

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    • bigbudchonga

      Libright?

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      • I dont care much for these labels.

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  • raisinbran

    Hand the thing a trash bag as a blanket and give it a space under the house to sleep, toss some kitchen garbage under there for it to eat. Spray it with a hose to get rid of it the next morning.

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  • Mini69

    I would ask them to masterbate somewhere else next time.

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  • CreativeMinds69

    Why the hell does everyone in this comment section called the kid, "it"? That "thing" is a fuckin human being without a home, and you have the balls to call them a fuckin thing?

    Now, like most of the comment section, I would call CPS after feeding it a PB&J Sandwich with Chocolate Milk.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Work out which welfare service to call, then call them. It’s common sense really.

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  • Ginapuffs

    My dog would probably attack it before it got close to my house 😈

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  • BleedingPain

    Depends on a lot of factors.

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