What traits do you value most in yourself and others?

I realized that there are traits i value on a subconscious level and then traits i value consciously. Anyways yeah what traits do you most value in yourself and others?

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  • Intellectual integrity. To practice what you preach and to hold yourself to your own standard.

    I'm not big into social masks, I perfer to be the same man as I represent myself to be.

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  • Independence.

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    • Autonomous thinking. So many sheep are about now a days.

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      • Right on!

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        • I thought I was self aware for the longest time. Then I actually woke up and started to make independent decisions, some good, some bad but at least I was the one to move my chess peice.

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          • I have an old journal of mine that contains some of my fav' quotes, and this one came to mind with your earlier reply to my comment, which I thought I should share with you, (well, that's not saying you might've never came across it.):

            "There are people who are generic. They make generic responses and they expect generic answers. They live inside a box and they think people who don't fit into their box are weird. But I'll tell you what, generic people are the weird people. They are like genetically manipulated plants growing inside a laboratory like indistinguishable faces, like driods. Like ignorance."

            - C. JoyBell C.

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            • Intresting quote. I have an equally heavy quote about lifestyles.

              A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyse a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.

              - Robert Heinlein

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  • Honesty. I’m very happy that I’m a bad liar.

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  • Someone who can be around to help when I need it. I'd be around to help them out if they need it too.

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  • How blunt I am.

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  • I subconsciously like physical appearance, but I consciously value your honesty and for some reason,(Even thought tbh I've never cuddled anyone) I really crave cuddles.

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  • Honesty loyalty

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  • Creativity. And sense of humor.

    Which traits made you think up this question?

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    • I realized that due to my childhood i place high value on physical traits, because growing up i was used for my body, so those are on a subconscious level as consciously i know that ones value isnt based on their body. Consciously i value those who are open minded, kind and accepting. So my childhood beliefs made me think up the question.

      I also appreciate the traits you mentioned 😊

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      • Very interesting. It's always good to question our beliefs and reassess them from time to time. I too appreciate the ones you listed! Like, funny assholes need not apply. Lol

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  • ability to bark at squirrels

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  • I value the ability to be genuine and upfront with others. The thing I can't stand more than anything is people who are fake.

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  • The one trait I value most are non-toxic people.

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    • We now live in an age where you have to explain what non toxic means.

      You can be an asshole while not being toxic.

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  • Anti hypocrisy.

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  • A healthy respect, and admiration for felines.

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    • They are efficent killers. Would not wanna fight a mountain lion. I do like my chances against a housecat though.

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      • It's funny that you mention mountain lions, because sometimes I think about what if my Siamese cat was the size of a cougar, we were just driving around by the beach with the ragtop down, and wearing matching sunglasses?! It could very well be one of the coolest things some people have ever seen!

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