What to do when you don't know how you feel about a woman?

I have mixed feelings for a woman. The reason I have mixed feelings for her is that sometimes she can be talkative and nice but other times rude and kind of hurtful.

I am a guy and the personality of a woman is the single most important thing for me.

People have told me to talk ot her about it. However, I feel she is one of those types of people that you can not talk to about things like this. I feel she will not take it seriously and feel she will just be immature about it.

I am looking for honest advice. Please don't judge me or the situation because remember you don't know me. I am looking for helpful advice only. What is the best thing for a guy to do when he comes across a woman like this?

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  • Huntey501

    I got u just ask her don't be straight out with it sugar cote it you no don't be adick but don't be a prince charming say like hey ive noticed how you are really nice to me but sometimes you scarem me or make me nervouse when you're mood switches so fast you can be a bit mean but look I want to have a serious talk so can we take it serious to now? Just say something like that and we ainy judging

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    • Thank you for your advise.

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      • Huntey501

        No problem dude we all go through it

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        • Yes, that is true. I tend to like women but if they do things like this I have a lot of trouble forgiving women for what they do wrong.

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          • Huntey501

            Hey you want to check my post tell me if its normally?

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            • Sure, I can't do that.

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  • Hellnaw

    Take a vacation and see if she contacts you. If she does then bring it up, that way she won't be immature.

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  • bubsy

    First you'll need to accept that most women either have no personality, or the one they have kinda stinks. The former you can mold, the latter you can run from. You need to be the driving personality of the relationship. She wants you to be, even if she doesn't realize it. You need to realize that she just isn't as mature as you are.

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    • I mean I love to have fun but I don't like to have fun when it can be seen as how she has made me feel.

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  • ojimpu

    Is she right for you? Ask yourself that. There may be infatuations, just a lil fad that'll die out. You might go a long way and just end up getting yourself hurt. If she's being a bitch, tell her. I think she's a person that isn't used to honesty directed at her, and that's how she gets away with her attitude.

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  • wigz

    A lot of guys have a problem with starting to like a gal just because she's 'there', not because she's special. I can't even count how many times I've seen this happen to me and to others. What you need to ask yourself is, are you interested in her as an individual or are you simply getting attached because you see her often? Since you say she treats you badly at times, it kind of sounds like you might be hoping against hope, attached when there's no mutual feelings, something like that.

    I would suggest backing off for a while, take a step back so you can think clearer and also see how she reacts. Will she notice or care? Will you miss her? You'll find out.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Ask her what's up with the rude and hurtful shit, and if the answer is unsatisfactory then forget about her, and move on with your life. If you want to be happy try to detach yourself from how attractive someone is or rather how attracted you are to that person. Instead focus entirely on whether or not you and this other person you're interested in are actually compatible. Do you share common interests? Can ya'll actually get along with each other? What kind of person is this chick you're trying to talk to, do ya'll share the same morals and values, etc?

    Try not to let the butterflies in your stomach give you indigestion!

    ;-)

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  • reficul

    I'd dump the cunt.

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    • Yeah, I might just stop talking to her.

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