What should i do in this situation?
I have one very close and best friend. We've known each other long enough. We have common interests. We always help each other whenever possible. Sometimes it seems to me that I have done much more for him than he has for me. I really appreciate him. Before that, he told me that he also considers me his best friend. But today, during our conversation, he said that I might not be up to the best friend. How should I behave in this situation?
I agree should be mutual
First off, if you are best friends why are you keeping count of he did what for who ? Being best friends is more than keeping score on who did what for who. Get past that part first then work on the rest of your friendship.
Respond in kind? If he withdraws, ...you withdraw?
Like why bother if he doesn't make an effort for you. I don't understand.