What's going on with me
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Anyway hey .. I'll make this as short and succinct as I can . I've been dating this guy for close to two years now , I've never been in a " serious " r/s . I basically take him and what we have seriously , I don't wonder off or anything . It's weird cos I didn't like him at first , barely thought anything of it , literally had to down some courage juice for months on end cos he wasn't my type . Anyway, in the past I never took anyone serously or genuinely made an effort - but it's different with .... Let's just call him chase . I care and we talk about our future together etc ...
However , recently I've been feeling like there's no point in the r/s and I force myself and mind not to expect anything anymore.
I find that I can be slightly needy sometimes and he's so caught up at work we .... We do speak but it's very bleh - it's not nice chats , if that makes sense . So ever since I've detached myself from that and him a little I feel like there's no point anymore .
I know my story sounds boring , but I need a little push / clarity in making a decision .
I feel like I'm holding on just because I've gotten used to the company and my family don't live im doing college overseas, my family don't live in the same country as me - so I figured he was the perfect distraction at first but now it's sort of .... Dissolving , if that even makes sense ?
Really sorry about the long granny story - I'm hoping someone can share some advise :)
Thanks :) xx