What makes someone gay

I am not homosexual
I am just curious to know the real/scientific reasons.

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  • Being attracted to a member of your same sex and not the opposite would be my definition.

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  • From what I've heard, there's actually an evolutionary reason for it. Homosexuals help their siblings with their children, since they won't get any of their own. Thus increasing chance of survival.

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  • A 5 second scene in a Disney movie apparently

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    • In Disney's (15th) FIRST appearance of a gay character! Seriously, how many times has Disney touted the "first gay character" hype at this point?

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  • musical theater

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  • A lot of things; genetics (appears to account for about 33 percent of one's likelihood), the amount of sons a woman has, her overall health while she's pregnant, as well as possible cultural and social factors. Most social animals, to a greater or lesser degree, are capable of homosexual activity, or otherwise have some degree of members of their populations that are homosexual. In fruit flies, a particular gene can make males engage in courtship behaviors with one another; they sometimes form circular conga-line type things which each other.

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  • They say that it’s light refractions off a disco ball at 12 minutes past midnight

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  • It's the chemicals in the water turning the freaking frogs gay!

    But honestly I don't know, though i've heard theories about how it has evolutionary advantages.

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  • When they've got their cock in another man's arse.

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    • That is the definition
      What makes them prefer to put their cocks in another man’s arse and not a woman's vagina?
      And why is it gay to fuck a man in the arse and not a woman?

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      • because you said it yourself - one is a MAN, and one is a WOMAN.

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        • Focus
          In the case the guy who fucks should not be gay? Coz he does not have a cock in his arse? But only the only getting fucked?
          If fucking a woman in her arse does not make a man gay just because she is a woman. You get me?

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    • Or when two ladies play scissors.

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  • I dont think theres any one reason I think there's a host of things that causes it.

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  • i think its when a guy likes fucking guys. im no expert. i dont think they like girls if they're gay.

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  • The desire to be sexually intimate with a member of the same sex is what makes a person gay!

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  • What "makes" someone gay?
    I think gayness is a real-turn-on masturbation technique for those with sexual frustration. I don't believe people are born gay homosexuals, they are abusers of their sexual ability and take the wrong path to make them happy.

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  • Since you're kids u hang out with the same gender to play, look at any school yard. Even as adults people tend to stick to their own genders. The only time genders mix is when the need to reproduce surfaces. Either than that, men and women aren't made to be mixed. Heterosexual marriage is an invention that people tend to follow by fashion, which is fine, but it's fake.

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  • pretty girls turn other girls gay, simple.

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    • So people choose to be gay? O.o

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  • Liking the same gender as that individual, but also participating in sexual acts with them

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    • Why?
      What makes them prefer to that to the same sex and not to the opposite sex?
      I remember getting attracted to girls since I was 6 years old
      What makes them different?

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      • honestly it's a hard one but that's what it means. To your second question I have no idea only they can tell you. I liked girls my whole life, I prefer girls because they are better looking and their bodies are just better to me than guys,every single part of a girl I'll fuck and I have before.

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  • Genetics/evolution. There's a lot of research saying we're more on a spectrum than just heterosexual or homosexual. There's no one gene that makes someone straight or gay but multiple genetic factors. And unfortunately for some, childhood trauma can be an influence on their sexuality and understanding of what sexuality is. Kinda like how kinks are created. (First sexual experience/ turn on involving something specific)

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    • All my strange attractions were discovered in adulthood and I never had any childhood trauma. However everything during adulthood fucked me up.

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  • Hair dye. Doesn't matter what color, if anyone in your family dyes their hair in any way, all newborns will grow up to be gay.

    In reality, probably a ton of random stuff. Could be influences in utero, gay sperm (men who dye their hair make 'em every time), and/or early-life events (trauma, strange interactions, "don't be gay" lessons, etc).

    Turning gay later may or may not also be a thing, though it's my theory that the later in life you discover your sexuality, the more likely it is that something is going wrong or has gone wrong in your life.

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  • Getting infected with the Gay

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  • Forgetting to pull out!

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    • So if a man ejaculates into his partner it makes him gay, even if his partner is a woman?

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      • No but if that one had hit the floor, they wouldn't be here to be gay.

        Ck444 said it, once they are born there are so many random factors, there just isn't any one or even two factors that you can say make a person gay.

        I will say acceptance and the teaching of it's normal is having a positive or negative effect (depends on your view) on the size of the gay population.

        Hormones and puberty are tuff times on both m and f. Many guys and girls experimented 50 years ago. If it had been an accepted way back then many may never have even tried the other gender. From my experience and limited research most m and f have an awkward and sometimes bad experience the first time with the opposite gender. Normally not so with same gender.
        Partially I'm sure from the unknown and some from expectations.

        At this point. The younger generation has convinced me the more of them shot on the sheets or floor the better.

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      • I think they're just saying birth. Its random.

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  • Blues clues.

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