What made you abnormal

what was the first reason you thought you are abnormal to make an account in this site and ask the question "is it normal to _____??"

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  • KholatKhult

    How I found the site I have no idea - but I joined because I had pretty recently gotten out of prison and I was horrendously bored at my border job which was just sitting in a tower staring at nothing.

    I’m not allowed any social media presence cause I’m a baddie, and I had been learning English in the slammer which I wanted to improve - so I went with an English speaking anonymous website. I tried being a troll years ago but I sucked at it so I gave that up

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    • bigbudchonger

      Wow that's really interesting dude. What did you end up in the slammer for? Also, what's Russian prison like?

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      • KholatKhult

        One count murder, multiple counts voluntary manslaughter, and all the mess of charges that come with it. Now I feel cliche to have to pull the whole “I know it sounds bad, but-“ bit, but, I believe there are many people out there that would agree with me on my “reasoning”

        Prison is prison, I did between 7-9 months solitary confinement, a couple months in max security, and the rest in low security. In total I did just under 3 years in, being sentenced to 10. Only served a quarter of my sentence. The hands down worst part of being behind bars is it never really leaves you, you never “finish your sentence” even after you get out. You’ll always have little quirks in your head and behavior that follow you everywhere you go. There’s always going to be extra legal and social limits you’ll have to deal with

        I guess the biggest difference between Russian prison and others is I was with dudes who had never lived in Russia - they’d been in since before the collapse of the USSR. And Russian (and I assume most other) prisoners are very very well behaved compared to what they show on TV. Guards are up your ass so far you don’t have any time to act out

        I’m happy to speak a bunch on the whole experience, just assume you wouldn’t want a big ole read of me running my mouth lmao

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      • Grunewald

        Yeah, I'm curious too. Do you mind sharing?

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        • KholatKhult

          Gave bigbud a decently lengthed answer, I’m a kitten these days - way too busy to be a problem again

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          • Grunewald

            Ok, will read bigbud's.

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    • idolomantis

      You could be a better troll than you think lol. Were you really in a Russian prison? I've met a few Russians and they kinda freaked me out but a couple were nice if you were nice to them lol.

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      • KholatKhult

        I’m Russian so a Russian prison is my only option lmao

        We are nice we are just a bit more reserved as compared to some westerners, just a bit of culture shock is all

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      • 12345678912

        @idolmantis
        A pretty weak troll really but trys hard.

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        • KholatKhult

          You got something you want to talk about babes

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        • idolomantis

          Define "troll", please.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    I was wondering why I can read minds but it turned out to be the effects of 5G.

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    • raisinbran

      Did you get the vaccine? That's why.

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      • S0UNDS_WEIRD

        No the vaccine gave me the ability to move objects with my mind.

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  • 1234tellmethatyoulovememore

    "Is it normal to still be in love with my partner after a long time?" Kind of sad when you think about it.

    The second time I came here I was having a mental breakdown because I couldn't save a 15 year old girl from committing suicide after reddit gave her the genius advice to tell her "father" she wasn't really his, which her mother shared with her right before she died. Another woman and I said we would take her in but she rejected us and took all her dad's heart pills, downing them with liquor. My uncle and brother had committed suicide the year before within seven months of each other, so it was another situation I couldn't save someone. I came here to ask if it was normal I couldn't get over her death. I think I just put all my trauma on the girl, I was up all night trying to get her to talk to me. I am only ten years older than her, but I would have taken her. I didn't know if it was normal I felt so horrid after she was gone, and she is gone.

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    • i tried to commit suicide because I feel like I was soo lonely (i didn't mean I don't have a mother/father/brother). but I have someone to open up my mind and tell what I actually feels,
      that's when I find this website, while seeking for wierd questions like[why everyone ignore/didnt care/reject me..
      even if in the case of relationships..]
      I thank every single one of you, for not letting me suicide.... 💚

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  • darefu

    Sex, sex acts, sexual relationships, whether I was the only perverted person in this world.

    Nope, I'm not. I found out I was normal or slightly conservative compared to a lot of the IIN crowd.

    Shame I don't see as many topics in those areas as I use to. 5 to 10 years ago it seemed more. Maybe it just seemed that way.

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  • DarkMatter

    I asked if it is normal to like both boys and girls but not equally.

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  • litelander8

    I googled about the sparkles in my eyes and a link came up on here of a similar question that was asked.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      aww now i wanna google the sparkles in your eyes

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      • litelander8

        It’s weird. It’s like whenever I look at bright objects. Definitely the sky or just outside on bright days. Everything is glittery. I have perfect vision. But the imprint of bright lights stay in my eyes for hours and I can’t see a fucking thing in the dark.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    I joined by searching if something was normal on google. It made me sign up to ask a question. Once I asked a question I went to another thread and answered their questions while I waited for mine to be answered. Then I stayed.

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  • Grunewald

    I can't remember now.

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    • SkullsNRoses

      As I’ve said before, we didn’t find IIN - IIN found us.

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      • Grunewald

        You might be right...

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  • Curiouskitten444

    My first time asking on here was about 12 years ago and it was when i was a teenager asking if it was normal how affectionate my little brother was. He was really attached to me but i understand why now.

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  • fatok

    being a highly sexed pervert

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  • allialli

    i joined because i saw memes about this site

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    • idolomantis

      ...where? I didn't even know memes about this site existed lol

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      • Clunk42

        Search YouTube for "isitnormal.com".

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  • Somenormie

    When I first joined I thought I was abnormal because I found death of other people to be quite funny.

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    • idolomantis

      that's honestly not even that weird

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  • Vulpes_Ignis

    well, I like judging peoples lives instead of living mine, and I play too much

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Actually I remember how I found the site and it had nothing to do with asking a question lol. There used to be this website with a list of cool unique websites to visit and this was on that list. I think it was called something bored.com. That was over 10 years ago and in the beginning this site had some of the most hilarious questions ever and seemed way more active so it caught my attention and I joined but I don't remember that account name because I left and came back

    I think they could easily revive this site and get more people on if they updated it a little and advertised it somewhere 🙂

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  • BleedingPain

    My brain

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  • Tinybird

    My very first post was about how I wanted a Japanese boyfriend and was only attracted to East Asian (specifically Japanese) guys. It was on my old account when I was 16. Lol. Now I'm only attracted to tornadoes

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    • i ♥ Japanese girls
      when I see them
      I kind of feel like I have to say
      "wow perfect 😍"

      “but the problem is they all look like the same”

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  • Years ago (like, 9 almost) I created this (now deleted) account where I proceeded to ask a question if it was normal for me to want to don surgical gear and overpower another man sexually, or be overpowered by another man in similar gear. Somebody in the comments called me a sick fuck, my original account got delete for some reason, I came back under some alts, disappeared around 2016 or so, and just recently got bored and came back under a new name.

    Despite the nature of my first question, I have long considered myself heterosexual, and have only in recent years begun to sincerely question that designation. I will acknowledge that I have asked "IIN to be straight but think about sucking dick?" before, but none of the recent crops are mine.

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    • SkullsNRoses

      I’ve heard of the surgical instrument fetish, on Killing Eve one of the villains visits a brothel specialising in that.

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  • idolomantis

    I found this website when I lived with my ex, who was mentally ill. He liked looking through my phone with out my consent...

    He liked doing other things, sometimes, too.

    He found this website once. He wouldn't give me phone back and he thought I was "playing".

    I. Do. Not. Play.

    Much, that is. :)

    Unfortunately I do remember what happened after that.

    He physically tried to rip that phone out of my hand and I taught him a lesson by "wrestling" on the bed and when it was over he was curled up like a little jelly bean with red marks all over his arms.

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    • 12345678912

      Lucky he was a man or you could have gone to jail.

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      • idolomantis

        He’s lucky he didn’t go to jail, trust me.

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        • 12345678912

          I thought you said you battered him...

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          • idolomantis

            Um sorry lol.xD Basically yes, I did indeed "batter" him.:) He did a hell of a lot worse to me though. For me, I was always the one who was "punching UP" so to speak. He was the one who put me under his thumb. And yeah, I mean that in a physical way at times, unfortunately, though, it was mainly psychological. Any person can only take so much, it doesn't matter if you're male or female.

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            • idolomantis

              Also I just want to add this...

              Why the HELL is it so common for people to think that they are entitled to look at their partner's phone? I value my privacy, thanks. I don't care if you're my "guy", that doesn't mean you have a right to look at my phone.

              Some of us enjoy our weird things. Why can't privacy exist even within a relationship? It's not necessarily a sign of cheating, you know.

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