What are the signs of my mother to hate me? i think my mom really hates me

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I can tell you's what's been happening and what's been going on with my mother and I. My mom and I have our arguments everyday usually over little things, but mostly over big things. Lately I've been getting this strange feeling that my mother hates me and secretly gets jealous of me, it's making me feel bad and guilty because she's been acting weird around me. She's been talking about how much she's been wanting to lose weight, wanting to get her false teeth and complains about how skinny her face is compared to her body and that it doesn't suit her. Last week she started giving me an awful long time stares and constantly does it I keep thinking that she's jealous of my body because last week I lost alot of weight because I haven't been eating much (I was already skinny but lost alot more and thinned my stomach). Usually when it's just me and her she's nicer to me but when people are around me she gets angry and points the finger at me and blames me for all the problems. I feel like she's thinking I'm flirting because she keeps giving me a hard time every time I have a shower, brush my hair or change my clothes. Whenever I stay in the same boring clothes, haven't had a shower or brushed my hair she's alright to me. Does this all mean she hates me?

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  • BahmBitosWhap
    6 years ago

    Hard to say but she could definately be jealous of you.

    Which of course would not be right. She should like herself, and not put any negative pressure on you

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  • Scarlettx87
    6 years ago

    I think she's just sad that maybe once she was like you In her youth and now she's not, you might remind her of that(not your fault) have you tried giving her compliments and maybe asking if she wants to do some sports or dance classes with you? (Depends on your age) try thanking her for having you and that if she complains of stretch marks or saggy belly, remind her that that was her present to you-life. Tell her she's beautiful and try not to argue back with her, let it go through one ear and out the other. Little arguments last like ten minutes and are then forgotten but quality happy times last forever. You'll probably remember arguing but forget what it was about which just shows you, it wasn't that important if you've forgot already. If you have a dad or Aunty or anyone close to your mum, tell them you are worried she may be depressed and your sad as it feels like she's taking it out on you

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I would say for jealousy and resentment than hate.

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