What age did you lose your virginity?

Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 119 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • Still a virgin and I'm 22. But I haven't fallen in love with anybody yet either. I want to wait till marriage or at least till I've been with someone for a while. I want to know for sure they love me and I love them back before I plan to lose my virginity. I'll know when it's right!

    It can suck being a rather emotional person also, a one night stand would never work for me; so much regret I would have.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • hi me too i am a shy man i have 44 yo,, i still virgin too
      i am serious

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • Agreed :)

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • Well done deciding to wait until the times right for you too many of and myself included (I'm certainly no exeption) do things because we feel society expects us to. x

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • Yeah, truthfully thats what makes me stronger. When others expect you to have lost your virginity and they just ask me many questions why basically. I do like being different from most “supposely” normal people in todays society. I had a friend once that told me that I belonged in the 50's because of that, I was seriously? lol

        I just don't need to take any risks hurting me emotionally and physically even. You know STDs and pregnancy. When the feeling is right it'll happen. :)

        Comment Hidden ( show )
    • It's good you're not losing it to the first person who offers it but at the same time you're missing out on so much. Life's too short to have too many morals.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • I don't have that many morals truthfully. I'm not religous by any means; never been to church in fact. I just don't want to go too quick and have so much regret. It'll happen some point but it'll need to be the right person.

        Plus it's better not to risk any chances of getting pregnant with someone I don't know that well or end up getting an STD. I've already been through enough trouble through my life as is. I know there will be more but I don't want it to be that. Yes, I know there are condoms and birth control but there is still risk. When your with someone your most comfortable with you don't worry so much about that. :)

        Sex isn't life either. There is so much more fun out there than just sex. Others can disagree but this is how I feel and I know it'll be amazing when I experience too.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
    • i loss mine so i am free ,lol

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • If you lose then please vive me your sexy horny pussy i make her fully satisfied and take my dick in your mouth

        Comment Hidden ( show )
    • fuck you, lose your virginity

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • They all lie, there few i lost mine at 22 knowing well i could never have a life with guy but any way i went ahead and i am crushed can't get over him.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • Don't let this control your life. Find constructive and positive things to do with your time. Spend time with people that care about you. Stay occupied with your time.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Sadly I lost mine at 23. I was too much of a 'good boy' but had I known then what I know now, would have lost it at 16

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Why do you say "Sadly" like holding on to your virginity was something to feel ashamed of. xx

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • Because not having sex isn't something to be proud of either..

        Comment Hidden ( show )
          -
        • it's not nesacerally something that people should be ashamed of or particularly proud of either just as I believe it is ur body so there for your choice and if people choose to be celibit or never to have sex again or if they choose to sleep with a different person every day thatn that is also their choice xxx

          Comment Hidden ( show )
      • Nah he says sadly like it was so amazing he shouldn't have waited for so long

        Comment Hidden ( show )
    • I lost it @13 ...good op days ..getting head after school from my neighbor. .then her friend wanted to try it..ahhhh yess the good ol days...

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • dumb bitch

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Lost mine at 14. Biggest regret ever.

    He broke up with me a week later.

    But I didn't learn yet, took me 3 more people.

    I wish I was still a virgin~

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • me a man i still virgin, at age 44 yo

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost mine at 17 to my friends sister I remember it quite clearly, it was summer and my girlfriend was cheating on me. she told me she kissed another guy. We had gone out for almost six months. So that night I went with my friend to his sisters dance party. I was a mess and by 12 I was wasted and crying. My friends knew what was up but they wanted to get rid of me cause I was ruining there fun time. So they sent me home with one of my friends sisters and another girl. This part I don't remeber but my friends sister started kissing me and grabing me over my pants I didn't know what to do so I went along. we went to a house that nobody lived in and and I she basically was ready cause she unzipped me and went for it.oral happened then she took her pants off and had a red thong on and moved it to the side and grabbed me leading me in. I was on top, just thrusting, I was so drunk I didn't know if I was doing it right. She was moaning , but I didn't know if I was doing it right. I got tired but kept going and got bored so I started counting in my head. I counted up to a hundred and started over, and did this like 4 times. I'm not sure how long it lasted but I got tired and stopped she asked what was wrong and I told her so then she rode me for a while, then reverse cowgirl, then she told me to do her doggy. We took like three breaks but stayed up all night. In the morning we walked to her house and after 20 minutes her brother showed up. When he got there I pretended I was waking up then went home. She was 25 and I was 17 in reality I think that's considered rape. I never finished that night so when I got home I started to masterbate but fell asleep. We then had sex on every once in a while, but that's all it was just long hard sex. It was fun but I wanted more

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • haven`t lost mine yet

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Still a virgin, going to find a cheap slut sometime soon because I don't want to waste time with a relationship and don't feel like being a virgin either.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • You're gonna make a big mistake dude

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • My virginity means nothing to me except being another obstacle to overcome. I'm not fond of relationships and making a 'connection'. I just hope to eliminate a label and move on to more important things.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
          -
        • Well it's your life your choice.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
      • Yeah, like not find the right hole. lol

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Virginity is over rated and sex is bot a big deal and now sex is sold so much in the media to make it a big deal that it isnt and plus people make it such a big deal wake up fuck it its not

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • My girlfriend and I both took eachothers virginity in our 20s. Glad i waited.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 14 me and my cousin

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • When I said I wanted more I ment like a relationship, and sorry didn't mean to write such a long post but I've never told that to anyone and it felt good to let that out

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • i lost mine at 17 but i don't regret it i'm glad i waited cuz i'm still with the guy yay :) i'm glad i waited for the right guy. he can still leave me but i'm happy for now...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • It it normal the first option is ages 1-10 ?

    I think we could have started it at 10 and had nobody vote for it, cept us trolls.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • although don't forget not everyone loses virginity willingly.

      I know one woman who thinks she lost her virginity to her father before her 10th birthday. She's now in her mid 80s and still has emotional scars from it.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • Yeh but a discussion like that kinda falls under a different category, yes they lost their virginity, but I think the OP probably meant it in terms of HS kids in the back seat of a car kinda thing, like what age, 16? 19? Etc...

        Comment Hidden ( show )
    • Yeah, I don't find that normal at all. Of the people who gave that as their response, I hope they were either trolls or have a broad interpretation of the term.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • i was 8 and no it was my babysitters dau she was 7 thinking back really didnt know much 2 country kids im 30 now still looking back dont regret it but think she was raped by her father back then :(

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 5, thanks Father Marcel

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Lost my virginity to my little cousin playing truth or dare while her brother watched and is jacked off. We continued this for a while, she had such a tight pussy, but every time I nut, she made me nut in her asshole. One time I woke her brother up to watch me fuck his little sisters asshole. He was so hapoy6

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • i am still a virgin. :(
    i demand the D

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost my virginity to a female when I was 17. We dated most of my senior year of high school. I have yet to lose my ass virginity to a man, but hope to soon at 56.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Read your profile and postings. I have been married for 35 years, we are both in our early sixties. My wife is tall (five foot ten inches), blue eyes, slim and attractive, 36C breasts with large pink areola, nice long legs, very nice big white arse, hairy pussy with lips that hang down slightly, and underarm hair - very fuckable. Besides me she fucked two other men. For the first ten years we fucked on a fairly regular basis, always with me taking her in the missionary position and usually me fucking her from behind and pulling out at the last minute and cumming on her back. She looks gorgeous when fucked from behind. She has had two abortions. She has psychological issues and never climaxed. Oral with no swallowing but not anal. I stopped fucking her and for the last 25 years have been sucking cock and swallowing cum behind her back. Since I retired I masturbate on a daily basis, sometimes twice in a day. I have never been able to relax enough to take a cock up my arse. Have you had sex with a man since you posted this.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • It worries me that 181 people said 1-10... were they rape victims?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost mine with 11 and anal virginity with 11 1/2

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Lol, in similiar reply i lost my anal with a..... nvm and my actualy @ 11

      the first time i gave a blowjob: 10

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost my virginity when I was 11, as soon as I could get a decent erection I was tossing off, I can remember playing doctors with a girl I knew she was 9 and pretended to have a baby. She assumed the position in her dress I looked up he skirt she didn't have undies on. Little Jimmy shot up so I told her I needed to examine her and first my fingers went in then we had full sex.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • i had sex at 12 because me and my gf wanted to try it out and we are still goin out (im 22 years old)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 13. And I don't regret it. I try not to have regrets in my life. It taught me a lesson. I'd say wait till you're ready/in love. As long as you're at least a teenager and being safe about it.. I don't see the problem.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • i lost mine when i was 8

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost my virginity a few days before my 16th birthday as part of my birthday present from my girlfriend at the time.

    I had sex with her on four more occasions before distance made it too difficult to remain together.

    I did not have sex again for nearly 5 years.

    Moral of the story? Losing your virginity isn't as significant as having a healthy, long lasting relationship.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 17, I'm happy how I lost mine. I didn't lose it with the one I "love" I lost it to a good friend, and I don't regret it

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 19. Waited to fall in love and it was one of the best experiences of my life.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 90

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 30. No regrets.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • What is confusing is the 1-10 option either you nastay or you're just a troll.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Unfortunately I was only 14...I was pressured into it and I regret it. My boyfriend and I had broken up he left me because I wouldn't give it up and I was given the whole "if you loved me you would've did it" speech so shaking and utterly terrified I gave in and let him have it....I wish I was taught more self respect at this age..

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I still haven't and don't want to until I get married

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 9 with my 26 year old uncle

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost mine at 15 as a freshmen in high school.. :( I was raped and my mom makes me feel guilty about it..

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I am still a virgin and i don't really feel like getting another disease anyway.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost mine yesterday and it´s was great

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 17, the only thing i regret it staying with that person for 2 yrs lol

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 21. It was too late.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 5...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was in a sandwich at the time, I don't remember when so I just keep climbing into a sandwich and hope that one day I'll remember.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 19. No regrets, I loved him and we ended up being in a relationship for 5 1/2 years.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • I mean 18, 3 months away from 19. Holy crap, does that mean I'm getting old when I forget things like this? I had to use a calculator and calculate it. Geez.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I am a 18 year-old female and I am still a virgin (I bet that I am the only one who dislikes how specific that term is). Anyway, I planned on having intercourse starting at around 20 or so. But within the past month, I have fallen in love with someone...someone who I have chatted with on Facebook for eight to ten hours at a time, and someone who I text all day long. We agree on practically everything: we have the same exact perspectives on everything from never wanting to live in in the Deep South, especially Texas, to believing that Americans are prudes.

    Regardless, he and I have not just discussed sex together. Even prior to when we officially became a couple I told him that I felt that he might be "the one" - he agreed! Since then, we have talked about our future: how we will handle our relationship becoming a long-distance one, as well as eventually living together and getting married, on a daily basis. We both agree that we are not ready at this point. Despite having some hang-ups about sex (such as thinking that it is something that "those kids" do, though I believe they have every right to do it) I know that having the right partner will make our first sexual experiences rich and memorable for both of us.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • LOL 1-10

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 16 and unlike most (it seems) mine was a positive experience.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I still haven't, but I'm alright with it. I'm still with my first boyfriend, and we've taken things really slowly from the start, since I have a strict mother and he's kinda shy. I plan on waiting for marriage.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 21 and havent stopped having sex since im 32 now that might seem late but hey ive been getting my dick sucked since 16.So it works for me.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 16. I lost my v card to some randomer. If I'm really honest I wasn't ready Im just wanted to get it over with. xxx

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 12.
    It was rape by my brother.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost my virginity when i just turned 15 and i was kind of pressured into it by my boyfriend who was basically extorting it out of me saying that it would make up for something bad i did (which wasnt ven bad but he made a huge deal out of it and made me feel horrible because i cared for him a lot. So anyways i was one of the first girls in my highschool in our year to lose my virginity and within a week everyone knew. Turned out he had told his friends, about 8 people about it. I was furious. Needless to say i was so in love with him by this time that i stayed with him for 4 years. A little later in our relationship we tried anal for the first time and i clearly remember him commenting just before we were gonna do it that "his friend is gonna be so pissed that he got to do a girl in the ass before him" ... Stupid jerk. I feel so gross just thinking about him. Waste of 4 years.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 14

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost mine at age 13 with a girl right after i went to her house on the first date

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I turned 21 in January, and lost it a couple weeks ago. No regrets.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I havent yet. And dont see it happening anytime soon...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • check out how much mexiguytex87 wrote hahahhaa

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • wow, there's so many people's life stories on here. give it a rest

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • im 20, and im still virgin...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • yeah im still a virgin because one im not that attractive aka i need to lose weight. two i make awkward conversations with girls. three im afraid of girls because of the awkward conversation thing. four ive never really been around girls.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Im an 18 year old girl and im still a virgin and have had 1 boyfriend...so yea. nothing wrong with it. You have to make sure you are ready, wouldn't want to do anything you regret!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 14.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Having just finished high school last year, and all of my boyfriends turning out to be complete d-bags and obnoxiously immature, I am still holding out for the right person.

    I did come really close to giving it away, but realized that I was being pressured to much to do so.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Well those age brackets aren't going to give you a very clear indication of what age most people lose their virginity. There's a big difference between 11 and 15..

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Still haven't. I have had the oppurunities to, but it involved effort to getting sex, which I wasn't bothered enought todo in order to get sex. The act of sex isn't the part that I wouldn't put effort in to doing, it's doing the things to lead up to sex that I don't find important or willing to engage in. So I'd feel awkward doing the parts that lead to sex, so I haven't had sex.

    I've never gone out of my way to have sex, and I doubt I ever will until I want to have a child. But if someone was to say "Do you want to have sex? No forplay" etc, then I'd do it. To be honest, the only reason I would actually seek outsex other than the child thing, is to stop getting pestered by people being suprised when asking "Are you a virgin" and I reply "Yes", because a big discussion breaks out that I don't want to take part in.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 15 for me, but that's nothing for me to be really proud of. i didn't have a decent relationship for another two years or so.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Average age is 15.3. True story.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 17 when I lost mine... I kinda regret it because I'm now in a serious relationship with someone who lost his virginity to me... If only I had waited for the right one, we would have lost it to each other... But that's life.

    Like I've said in the past, our society is f****d.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 17.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 18 in a park in a truck. classy.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • 17 frotn seat of a car while a buddy and his girl was bang ing in the back seat. so much fun when your young

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 23 here. Bit of a late bloomer I guess.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I lost mine at 15, I kind of wish I would have waited but the guy I lost it to was, in reality a great catch. Then he started doing drugs which kind of sucked, and I lost value for sex and romance due to that one being failed. Either way, it was painful and awkward but I'm glad I did it because my husband was a virgin when we got married and it would have just been weird as hell to start from scratch with the sex drive we have. It would have amounted to many disappointing nights...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • 11 and 15 is a bit different, haha ^^
    But I lost it at 14th (:

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I was 10 when I lost mine to a 9 year old girl,

    Comment Hidden ( show )
Add A Comment