Was she in the wrong

Hi everyone recently me and my good mate got into a really big fight. I am 22 and she is 34.
What happened was we were going on a night out and meant to meet up. We didn’t meet up in the end because she wouldn’t just ring me and find out we’re I was. I looked everywhere for her. Sending her location to me go try and find her then after I texted I couldn’t find her she just texted what do you mean you couldn’t find me.
The next day I tried texting her again I was sending voice messages on WhatsApp crying because we never got to meet up I was so upset. She didn’t seem to care or reply to my crying she just changed the subject and was just caring about her stuff missing. Not taking my feelings into consideration.
We were meant to be going out to celebrate my graduation as she didn’t make to my actual graduation.
She didn’t reply to me. I went crying to her work place saying she wasn’t reponding and I was worried as I hadn’t heard from her in 2 days.
As this wasn’t like her.
I heard from her after she said her phone, card and ID got robbed. All this would have been prevented if she just rang me and told me where she was. I couldn’t know where she was just by sending her location to me I’m terrible at directions.
She texted me saying she got robbed that’s why she couldn’t text and she got a new phone that day.
I was so upset and started to cry again she replied so rude to me and said her stuff got taken and that I was not ok to go up to her work and start crying she was so angry with me.
I said I was so upset and sorry that i did that but I have feelings and was worried and didn’t know what to do when I didn’t hear back from her.
I miss her so much as a friend and really liked her.
She said the other day she doesn’t have time to be dealing with this that she needs to get her stuff back and sorted and again continued to get cheeky.
I said ok no problem and left it at that.
I have given her a week of space and still no heard from her at all.
She has been posting on Facebook and other social media a lot and more often ever since we fell out.
My mum sent her a message on WhatsApp basically saying she should have no just left me that night it was dangerous and not fair and the way she is carrying on isn’t ok.
She blocked my ma and not me that I do not understand.
Please help I don’t know what to do.
I was thinking of leaving her and saying to her how I am feeling and blocking her and having nothing to do with her anymore.
She had loads of time to get back to me
I am feeling very suicidal because of the way she is going on.
Why didn’t she want to try find me that night, I’m thinking she didn’t want to meet up or she was very drunk while texting me.
She gave me so much support and genuinely cared for me.
Help a girl out do I save this friendship or end it.

She sounds so fake 1
She clearly wants nothing to do with you get her out of your life 4
Message her and block her 1
Text her how you feel and see her response take the risk 0
She’s not even worth getting back friends 1
Give her more time do nothing wait for a possible text 1
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Comments ( 15 )
  • Yaidin

    22 and 34? This is some high school drama

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    • Ilovefood

      This isn’t advice this is a smart ass comment

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    You need to work on yourself. You sound very emotionally unstable and clingy. You are going to push alot of people away if you cant get a grip on your emotions.

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    • Ilovefood

      I will take this into consideration thank you Mabye I am being a bit too clingy

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  • ospry

    This sounds like a really unhealthy codependency on your friend. Maybe letting her go would actually be a good thing for you

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  • Mini69

    You sound like a complete fruit loop. I’m not surprised she’s avoiding you. Why would you go to her workplace and start babbling, that must have been so embarrassing for her. She’s a grown woman while you are barely out of school uniform and still behaving like a child. You need to get over yourself and find some friends your own age and for fuck sake stop acting like a 15 year old with a crush.

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  • Ummitsstillme

    Put spaces in it mate.

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  • AsterBean

    Did you consider her at all in this story? I'd be annoyed too if my friend focused only on themselves while I was freaking out about my ID being stolen. She probably could have paid you a bit more attention, but was rather preoccupied with her own drama. Sometimes you need to acknowledge others if you want the same consideration.

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  • Tommythecaty

    I can’t believe someone would write that entire thing.

    Pretty sure you troll yourself if the effort you put into your post exceeds that of the answers given to you.

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    • Ilovefood

      No need for such a cheeky reponse people come here for help not to be given cheek
      So your advice is no help thanks
      I will write as long as I want plus I am a fast typer so it doesn’t bother me.

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      • Tommythecaty

        People rarely come here for actual help, they aren’t that silly.

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      • Vvaas

        cheeky

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  • Menacingduck

    Both of you are acting childish.

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    • Ilovefood

      Mabye we are thanks

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      • Menacingduck

        👍

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