Was it normal for mom's to feminize me and other's at that early of an age?

Where to start well, at the early age of 10 before we moved away to another state to have a fresh start. My mom started to take the liberty of picking out clothes and other things for me. She started making me where dresses, among other things while my dad was off fighting in Iraq. She would make me wear girls clothing from time to time and at the age of 13 she started showing me how to shave my legs and put on make up. I simply obeyed my mother's directions thinking this was normal for everyone, boy was I wrong. By the time I started highschool, I started noticing the differences between boys and girls and started getting confused.
When I decided to ask my mom about it, she told me that I was special and that I was no different from anyone else there. The next day made me feel the complete opposite, it was gym class an I went into the boys locker room to change with the rest of the boys. When I started changing I started hearing the other boys snicker at me. Calling me names like *** because I was wearing panties under my "boy" clothes. It was then at that moment when I felt the most vulnerable in my life. I felt a hand squeeze my rear and another hand pull my panties down. I felt completely humiliated by the other boys as I tried to pull them back up bending over showing what I had to everyone, they all laughed saying now we know why your wearing panties to cover my micro... up. My next 4 years of highschool were utter hell. It wasn't til I graduated, that I started noticing that I didn't look much like a boy at all. To this day I don't know why my mom did that to me, all I know is that I love wearing girls clothes now and she supports me in every way. She recently even started taking me to meet some of her friends. We've mostly just been talking to them, but every now and again I catch my mom sleeping with one of them. They are black men btw. It wasn't til about 3 months later that my mom started taking me to visit them more often. And eventually I got caught watching her with him. She noticed and winked at me giving her come here with her fingers I walked in on them, she got up and brought me back to this man in the bedroom. It was then and there that I started to enjoy what my mom had turned her loving son into. A feminized white "gurl" whose only purpose is to give retribution to her black daddy's.