Was i rude to my girlfriend
She wanted to practice for her job interview this Wednesday. We had a mock trial over the phone.
Her answers to questions were generally good, but she has a tendency to give too much information. I got annoyed because I really want her to get this job, so I said “Jesus Christ nobody wants to hear that much! When people call me at work and they talk too fast and too much I loose interest.”
She’s has social anxiety. I started to harp on her out of nowhere that she needs to look confident. I related to his party she tends to be quiet, and I told her if she’s quiet like that during the interview she’s going to look weird and not fit in the culture. I think that hurt her feelings since she’s insecure.
She has a tendency to talk fast out of nervousness, and I find it annoying. I told her I really don’t want to be anxious and I asked if there’s some supplement to take that could calm her down.
Whenever she tried to answer I kept interrupting her telling her how she could answer the question better.
I feel bad. I felt like she was giving good answers and I just found what faults she has elsewhere and kept bringing them up, like her social anxieties and looking awkward.
Was I mean?