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Heyyy! So, uh, I wanted to ask if it's normal to not want to ever really talk to people ever. The reason I'm asking now, is that cuz like my neighbor and her kids are moving. Recently something really, really bad happened to their family that sort of affected lots of people. But, see, before this happened, I was supposed to go to their house, however I was way too tired to go. The next week or so that bad things happened.Now, today I was supposed to go to their house again, but I was too tired today too. My sister went, and when she came back she told me they were probably gonna move. Our neighbors act so much more like a family than our actual family, and I really don't want to sound narcissistic, but I just really don't want them to leave and I don't know what to do. I know I'll probably look at this in the future and think "Wow, I sure was real narcissistic and an overreactor..." but like I really don't know what to do and I could go to their house now but I don't want to be a bother and I want to tell my friends but I don't know how they'll react and if they'll even text back and I'm really just stuck cuz I'm so scared.Is this normal? I'm sorry if this sounds narcissistic, like an overreaction, or if it doesn't make sense.

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  • bake a cake or some muffins and go over and talk with them ez

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    • But the fear of talking to peoples too big and everytimes i makes the foods i mess its the up 😔

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  • Maybe you come from a family that wasn't especially social? My family certainly could have been more social, and I feel kind of socially retarded, or like my growth was stunted with regard to social skills. Sometimes I feel awkward, and or anxious to the degree that I have anxiety/panic attacks before extended family get togethers. Oftentimes I would be late, or not attend a family event. I have said I felt sick so as not to be at a family dinner, and felt like I was faking even if I have a migraine, and or a flare up of myofascial pain, or IBS.

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    • My family isn't social at ALL

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  • It’s normal to feel sad and anxious about the loss of neighbours you care about. It would be narcissistic to make the situation about you but that’s clearly not the case here, you’re just understandably upset. Do you have their contact information for when they move?

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  • What was the bad thing that happened?

    And its normal that you dont want them to move but its not up to you

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  • Lmfao, seriously? You obviously don't know how a narcissistic person acts, buddy.

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