Trigger warning: sexual abuse
I don’t know where else to go. I’m scared to talk about this to my family, my girlfriend, anyone really. When I was very young I was molested by my older sister’s best friend. I had completely forgotten about it and realized around 8th grade that I had been abused. It seems so. Disgusting to think about. How someone could do this to me or anyone. I was just a little kid and I was so confused. He manipulated me. I’m so disgusted with myself too, at times I feel that it’s my fault. It’s so hard to even remember exactly what age I was. Maybe kindergarten or 1st grade? I try to piece my timeline together and make sense of what happened and what else I did. I kissed my best friend around the same age too. I’m trying to understand why I did that and why I seemed to be sexual at such a young age. I’ve been researching about sexual abuse and how it affects young kids, and it’s so hard. I try to make myself feel better and understand, it’s just all pathetic. I feel so fucking guilty about what happened to me and also why I kissed my best friend. If anyone reads this, I’m sorry. I really just needed to write this out. I’m out of highschool now, but I can’t seem to let this go or heal from it at all. If anyone else has been through sexual abuse as a child and has advice or anything, please talk to me. I cant seem to even think about this without crying for fear that I messed someone else’s life up or that I’ll never be able to overcome this.