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the world is so full of shit people with shit attitudes that I want to just get a crowbar and smash their fucking teeth out. god, I want that so fucking bad. anyone else feel like that?
Correction: The world is full of plastic. 70% is in the world's oceans. 1% is household waste. The remaining 29% is found in supermodels' tits.
That is a bloody good comment, and it made me laugh. Thank you for that mate
English Lad, you are funny, but tell me what statistics? are these that you have perused the ocean floors, and checked the plastic content in people's homes. Of course you know all about supermodels. Just a joke from someone who is having fun early in the morning.
The world isn't even full of people (although sometimes it does too full in cities at least) and if you can only see the bad ones you're not seeing straight.
How about the people who rescued those kids trapped in the cave the other day: how about people who save lives; ordinary people who care for their families and friends and that's just a few types off the top of my head.
Anyway, you have no control over whether or not other people are shitty, but you do have a choice about yourself and also a choice about how you see the world and what people you associate with.
That is a very good point.
I guess my statement that saying the world is "full" of bad people is a little ambiguous. I know that there are many good people too, and these I am thankful for, but it is the bad ones that stick out like a sore thumb because they cause so much unjustified pain. it's these people that I struggle not to turn to with thoughts of violence.
thank you for your perspective.
I wouldn't call it ambiguous but an indication that you see things in extremes, which of course we all do sometimes: it takes a bit of practice but it's worth learning to shift your focus from the negative to the positive and also to try and stay away from shitty people.
Letting the baddies affect your thoughts and attitudes is letting them win!
You sound like a psychopath with a shitty attitude.
Maybe you get out of the world what you put into it.
I don't know just a thought.
She/he has that attitude right now because this piece of shit world and people have made he/she have this attitude. you also have no clue what his/hers life is like. Obviously you haven't had to go through anything that bad so of course you'd say this. I guess I can't blame you though you just don't have enough experience or knowledge on the topic. Have a wonderful day. :)
Thank you. Thank you very much for your understanding. Your open-minded attitude means quite a lot to me.
Of course. I've gone through a lot myself so I understand where your coming from and how you feel. It's not anyone else business to tell you how you feel because they have absolutely no clue what your life is like. I mean hell their strangers on an internet. Just helping out a fellow citizen. I hope things get better for you.
Yes, the world is full of shitty people. If you get thrown in jail for assault with a deadly weapon, or attempted murder you will not only be surrounded by even more shitty people, but you will also have succeeded in making yourself into a massively shitty person.
It's best to try to focus on the positive things. Have you spent any quality time with a dog or a cat today?
Right now my mother is in the emergency room, because her blood pressure is through the roof. She's 78 years old, and still quite active, but she has high blood pressure and diabetes. She doesn't like to take her high blood pressure medication, because of the side effects, and doesn't test her blood sugar enough. It's scary, and I called my sister to keep her informed, and to ask her to pray. My sister only spoke with me about our mother's health for a brief time, and spent the rest of the nearly one and a half hour phone call wasting my time talking about this stupid guy she is obsessed with. Later my father asked me to call some relatives, told me that my mom specifically asked me not to call my one aunt that helped me a lot when I was having problems last fall, because they are feuding with each others about money of course.
I know all about shitty people. I have met them in every line of work I've ever been in and in many different circumstances. There are people in my family that I love who happen to be shitty. I myself am probably shitty in my own shitty way. Shitty people and their shitty antics are everywhere, there's not much one can do. You too are probably even shitty in your own shitty way.
My point is that being shitty is part of human nature. Why do you think monkeys and apes make such awful pets? Well, it's because monkeys and apes are shitty; primates in general are shitty.
Try not too get yourself too wound up about shitty people, and try not to do anything shitty.
I am very sorry about your mother...I hope in all honesty that she recovers well. She sounds like a good person, as do you, and I hope the best for you all.
Thank you for your advice. Your perspective has made me reflect on my thoughts and for this I am thankful.
Your mom will be okay. I know it is a big deal, but they can fix it sooner rather than later. She is in the right place. Family members do care, but on the same level they all show it in different ways. I care to the point where I want to be with the person and make sure they are okay. Other people try to avoid the situation at hand. Other people, even though, everyone is sad just have "anger" about it, and cannot treat people in a good way. But you are right. People are "shitty" at times just like my favorite little animal.
Sorry to hear about your Mom. That whole situation sounds pretty shitty.
Thanks, and yes it is a rather shitty situation. I need these two geezers with me for another twenty years at least!
Really? I thought they needed you for your benevolent radiance and spiritual grace.
I need everyone to stay calm, but your words make my day. Benevolent radiance? Spiritual Grace? Love it. The kind of poetic I can handle any day.
Sort of, but actually I'm just exaggerating. Given the reality of the family situation, you are their only hope. They will need assistance with housework, transportation, light medical support (shots, glucose tests, and stuff), and organizing finances. Your self centered 'get out of my way' younger sister wouldn't recognize a team goal if hit her in the face. That only leaves you, dear heart. Maybe I wasn't exaggerating. Oh well.
Geezers or the best, but I think you are funny and sweet. I need so many people to be happy I will not count it for now. Maybe later, but I do enjoy the conversation.
no one wants to hurt anyone. their standards- to treat babies and parents, and grandparents right, regardless of where they came from? I mean it is not the worst thing that could have been said.
The world is full of some crappy people.
Some of yall like to write books on here, damn.
My answer is simple, I have no kids.
I figure things go completely to shit about the time I die anyway.
I do feel bad for those that are here.
But.
Case sa ra, etc.
Nice. I want kids, but I would rather just be with the ones in my family now. They are all so cute and sweet. I never have to worry about houses, or cars for them, or paying for their college. I just get to spoil them, and make them good with my grand influence. Perfect. Kids I know are not shitty. I just wonder where it all goes wrong with some people?
Thanks for your response, and kind wishes. I called my sister late last night to talk to her about our mom, and she me on the phone for three and a half hours. Ugh. I gotta work on my boundaries with my sister. She spent the majority of time obsessing and psychoanalying this guy she's obsessed with. She reconnected with her prom date from almost 30 years ago on Facebook, and now she's obsessed. It's so beyond annoying. She actually had the nerve to tell me that she is not obsessed with him, and then start yelling about being not obsessed. She actually had the nerve to tell me before we got off the phone this morning, "don't tell anyone I was talking about Mike until 7am, because I was talking about men in general". Ugh! I personally think I owe it to myself to completely ignore what she said. I think my sister has very serious obsessive compulsive disorder, because she's also a neat freak and a germaphobe. In all honesty I probably should be praying for my sister, but she gets on my last nerve. She is très cray cray! I'm not saying that I'm not crazy, but damn, at least I'm trying to get better.
I guess I had better try to get dressed, and go visit my mom. If you could shoot a couple of prayers my way I would be most grateful. God, grant me the willingness to be willing.
I think your grandmother and the rest of your family are very blessed to have someone as prayerful as yourself in the family. Hang in there, girl. I'll say some prayers for you too. Thanks again for your thoughtful response!
Your sister is dealing with the same thing, so she has to narrow her attention to some other avenue such as Mike. Please remember everyone is different, but everyone is the same in some ways. She cares about her too, but reacts in a different way. Your grandmother must know that. Older people realize more about the way people are- in certain unhappy, but hopeful, contexts
Come on dude. Never hurt an Irish Potato, and never take an Irish Potato away from the Irish. I heard about this, but I always push the unhappiness to the back of my mind.
sorry for calling you a cunt last night, I was in a very angry mood and not thinking straight. today is another day and I am calmer now, hence the apology. I don't expect you to accept the apology, nor do I expect you to now believe that I'm not a shit person, but I will still say to you that I'm not a shit person. I'm just a young man struggling with accepting the wrongs of the world and trying to correct it in confusing and contradicting ways.
I cannot accept the wrongs of the world, but not being able to fix it it is nice to write. It is creative, not to hurt. It is nice to be happy in other ways, too. I draw, color, hang out with kids, animals. Everything is nice on one level, but it is hard not to be able to watch the news.
Keep punching yourself until you feel better. Then go get drunk with your Dad.
I never get drunk, but I swear punching yourself must be figurative, or else who are you Mr. Mcbean? Are you good, or are you saying what?
a) that's called self-harm, and encouraging someone to self harm is hardly what I'd call valid advice. Especially to someone who has had a 4 year history of very serious self harm resulting in life-long scars. sure you didn't know that, but that's the point -you don't know me so don't tar me with the same brush.
b) alcohol is one of the things that makes the people I call "bad" so shitty. so why would I want to engage in alcoholic activities? I stay clear of such things
I would be so happy if you did not have to deal with shitty people. I think it was figurative. If not it means so much to me that someone not say that. Some people cannot help what they do. There is no reason to set there and say something that will hurt someone.
a) Self-harm is rarely a valid unless it prevents you from beating other people with a crow bar.
b) Nice that you avoid alcohol.
c) Perhaps you have a brother or friend that could help you with your BPD.
Oh my fucking god. I actually have BPD, so please don't make light of these situations for god's sake. I don't need help with it. I don't have any friends because I don't want them, and I don't have a brother. I have a therapist but he just retired so I have no one to help with my BPD. But my BPD doesn't actually have anything to do with my thoughts regarding any of this.
"... my BPD doesn't actually have anything to do with my thoughts regarding any of this."
That's an interesting hypothesis. Perhaps you will test it with a crow bar.
What are your thoughts? What does BPD mean? Your figuratives have me wondering are you nice, are you the wrong kind of troll, real name, or what beans.
I can't be arsed with you any more, you clearly don't understand BPD. I'm not going to keep gracing your comments with answers, it's a waste of my time
I am sorry about BPD. I know a little bit about it, but I also know that sometimes a situation can make things worse. I hope you are okay. I really want people to always know if you can step outside of a situation- the complicated nature of the world- makes it less about what people think about you and more on how people react to various situations. You are dealing with more than you should have to handle, but in actuality, people never know that, so dealing with what they deal with is stressful. Always remember you are amazing to many, even if there is discord, and you can be hopeful and happy.
my parents were great parents actually so fuck you. I've had a broken childhood thanks to bullies at school though so wtf do you know
Actually by you saying that it makes you one of those people.... TBH.. Obviously you've had no pain in your life so I guess I can't blame you cause you've probably have always been protected form the world and had everything you wanted. You have no clue what so ever what anyone else life is like. It's not my fault you have a perfect life so you don't know shit. Well guess what honey there are people that have to live life in the real world, not everyone can live a fantasy life. Reality's a bitch.. Trust It'll catch up to you one day.
Construe those words for good. Fantasy is real. What is inside your head can come true. It always does in one way or another. So if you think for the good the impact is real. If you think to help the good- you will. If you think that some people impede the good- always think- it will work out. Never tell someone to live in reality. Right now it is one of the worst ideas you can give a person.
I completely agree with you. But at some point there does need to be a realization of things. There is a very thin line between reality and fantasy. Everyone should dream and try there best to make it happen but thats not always how things work out. People are dreaming in the future, which isn't a bad thing but they do need to know and realize whats happening now.
Riiight sometimes my life is so easy I just fall over because I forget how to walk. 😂😂😂
Well then if your life isn't\wasn't easy then you should understand, shouldn't you? And let me ask you this if your life is hard why would you want to go and make someone elses life harder than it already is? You should know what it feels like to break down and just want someone to listen to you, and if you truly understood that concept you wouldn't want others to feel how you do. He wasn't hurting anyone. He was just venting, not actually intending to hurt someone. And I do want to say I'm sorry because I was really pissed off that day. But it still doesn't make what you said okay.
"why would you want to go and make someone elses life harder than it already is?"
I don't. I believe in personal responsibility and calling a spade a spade. O.P made a descision to come here and post that people are shit, then proceeded to tell responders to fuck off and call them cunts. I stated they "sound" like they, themselves are shit, not that they WERE shit.
O.P has since apologized to responders for having a bad day. So be it.
Peopele.shouldn't start fires and then cry when it's hot.
Your life does not have to be easy. In perspective, yours, mine, and the ones who care about you, it is a colossal, ginormous idea- that you be safe, but I know this story, everyone is okay, but not everyone is okay.
animallover5 - you really understand. You understand life and the world and how it works, and I can see that you have empathy and judgement of right and wrong. You are wise, and I just want to thank you for your support.
That is what I believe as well, but on the other hand- where did it all come from? From someone in their car? From someone who needs what they should have? Come on? Credit is needed, but as well more is needed than credit. Because your whole life shapes you, always remember to thank the ones who are their for you, and treat people right in the present. Even if there is some discord, remember, eventually you can all be together or in some cases, in some weird brain memory dimension you are together. Love everyone and peace out.
I know I'm not a shit person. Sure, I've done a lot of shit things in my life (who hasn't?) but I have made amends for every bad thing I have done by personally seeking out the people affected by my behaviour and doing something to make it right.
So you'll be making amends to everyone you told to fuck off or called a cunt right?
It does not matter what you call people when you are upset. It matters that if you love people and if you treat them right, there will be times when you may say the wrong thing. Consistently, my mouth is "horrible", but I never mean it for bad. I just mean that if I drop something, I say something really silly. Who cares, right? If you upset someone to the point where they say fuck off, why would that be? and what would it matter to you to have treated them that way?
no, not at all. If I tell someone to fuck off or call them a cunt and they DESERVE to be called so, then I stand by my statement. Duh.
That is one of the sweetest things I have ever heard. I know you are good. I can see it between the lines. I wish I knew you. or do I? I think that in some ways you are like one of my best friends, but in other ways you are different from him. I know you people are the best. I just wish that for some reason we could be heard and everything would die down. Everyone would be treated right.
Thank you...I really appreciate your empathy and your wise comments. I feel like you know me, and you've seen through my difficulties and into the person I am. We don't know each other in real life, but we clearly feel like we know each other simply due to the fact that we can understand and empathise with one another.
Your input has been strongly meaningful to me.
Nobody knows until they know you. I wish it was better for me, but I know there is hope. Even though some people, me included, look at the world for right- the good is there too.
truly the best. what what was this post about again? no happiness in hatred. for real doh.
what is a pd? no rants on trump. the biggest thing is treating people right regardless if you are the president or listening to the president. I cannot understand anything that goes on right now.
Who the hell is an attention bore on isitnormal? This site is for venting and trolls. Come on dude. I just try to be happy at night. Other people are too.
they have to make sure things are safe, but whoever you are words are important. This post has taken a turn for the absolute worst, but in each situation, in life in general, there is always hope.
This person or people, is obviously wanting immigrants or maybe people in general to be okay. Reading the post will help with that. It is a vent, but I do believe safety is a big priority in everyone's life. The names of Trump clued me in, though. Thank you for being concerned. Always do what you think you have an obligation to do.
I love books. I just wish I knew where you had come to this point. I hope and believe your grandmother will be just fine. All I know is positivity- God for me and your grandmother- is the best thing that a person can do for health. I would never let a doctor hurt someone in that way. Never say to someone that there is no hope. It could distract from the true possibilities- of staying alive longer and being healthy.
A narcissist. Everyone is a narcissist. We all think of things from our own perspective, but as well some people think of others. Let us see who would think of children and grown ups being torn apart for no reason. How much else is on the news. Like I said I watch it for a moment and leave the room. I know it takes just a little to fix something, but with me it never does work even on a small scale. It would take a big bunch of people to save the world, even in America. The people though, need to be safe, and I will go so unhappy to be scared for good people who want the right thing. Be safe for your family. Words and groups for good can maybe fix this- from a distance.
Never bring someone's parents in unless you know them. Just a bit of advice from someone who knows that the way to go is up not down. What he is saying is true. I cannot watch the news right now. In a few short seconds I think to myself why? and what is going on? How can it get this bad for so many good people. I never want to hurt people, and this person does not want to either. This site is meant for venting. All I know is it is better to separate yourself from the negative, but the news is one of the most important things that we have.
I wish I gave less shits, too, but sometimes things seem like they are a big deal when they are not. I hope that this post means nothing- I know it was meant for a vent in a world where so much is wrong. The context was laid out for me- politics? or our leaders, whoever they may be, putting people in a position to not want to watch the news for their own happy little sakes.
It was purely a venting post. Sometimes I become so infuriated and tormented by the bad in the world that I have violent thoughts and need to vent. But I am not a violent person. I have only once been in a fight that was started by myself, and this was in order to defend another person. I don't use violence, but the hate within the world infects me with hate also, and I realise that.
the amount of times I'm repeating myself is amazing. I'll say it again: LIKE I CARE WHAT YOU THINK
blah blah blah whatever. empty threats. I have freedom of speech, and without a direct threat to an individual or group of people, you have no grounds on which to report me. jeez, i'm so scared right now :O
not
They got that from one sentence because they think. They have empathy. They understand the human mind and its primal basics. They are a very wise person, as their insight clearly shows.
I thought so, but maybe not. Just because someone pretends to make a connection does not mean it is real. Live in reality enough to know that everyone is smart until it comes to treating people right. If you cannot do that basic thing than you are dumb, but only in context- until someone says something, until you are angry, until you are upset. The true author is not wanting to hurt anyone, but the negativity seems to point to the direction of- all of us having brains- that maybe it is hard for a lot of people to see to treat people right. There is no need to hurt people just because of a race, just because of the way they vent. Words are some of the most important things in the world. I need to say things and be anonymous sometimes, but it only to hide the truth so others will not be hurt. Do any of you watch the news? Do you see how people are being treated? Do you see how babies are being treated on the news, just because their mom is from another country, even legal. The worst thing in history happens in 2018.
The people in the comment section are incompetent and uneducated. No one knows anyone else situation so how does anyone have a right to tell you how to feel or that your a shitty person for saying this? Have any of you heard of venting and figure of speech? guess not. so before you judge other people and say these things look at yourself first. It makes you just as shitty as the rest for saying these things when there is obviously someone in need of someone to talk to. Remember your situation might not be bad others are. Have a good day everyone.
Be just as nice as you should be. I know it is the same flip of the coin, but I love drama. Below the belt drama in any context is my least favorite, but this is from people who would not know. so just be nice. love everyone.
Thank you...this is so very true. I have free speech and sometimes, when you can't express your emotions to the people closest to you, you turn to the internet and anonymous posts to express those pent up feelings. Thank you for understanding this.
I haven't had an easy life, and still I don't think for a moment that my life is worse than anyone else's, but what I do know is that there are good people out there and bad people, too. It's just be unfortunate that the majority of the people I have met have been the bad ones, and the majority of people you see on the news and such are also bad, but on a much larger scale. We see murderers and rapists, racists and homophobes, people enslaving children, and so much more. Just because I expressed my anger and thoughts towards these types of people, it doesn't make me a bad guy, and I can see that you understand that, so thank you. Sure, it's not conventional to use violence to beat violence...but in a world so cruel and unjust, sometimes it's hard to put things into perspective and see straight.
You are a wise person and your empathy is outstanding. YOU are an inspiration to us all.
Your very welcome. I'm just such a passionate person when it comes to things like this, which sometimes is a bad thing because i can get overly passionate haha. And my passion gets kinda crazy when I'm mad so I over do things sometimes.... Okay maybe a lot. And the other night I just so happened to be in a very bad mood. It just makes me outrageously made when people make comments like that and they have ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE what your life is and has been like. I just can't stand incompetent people and I think more so now because I've been around them my whole life. I've gone through a lot of shit myself and used to know say anything about it. Well now I've had everything bottled up for years so I just let everything out and speak my mind. I just couldn't let people say those things to you with no one to help you out. Anyways stay strong and keep in there and just know you always have someone that will be there to have your back (even though I don't know you).