The bullshit of morality

Not all morality is bullshit, but it becomes bullshit when it's not detected, not seen as objectively that person's morals and not your own, not seen as a trait chosen by man, and seen as a way to control you and stop your freedom. And the problem with moral people is that they see your morals as less than theirs, less than human and as a way to control you, and not as real morals where you have a choice. This is what objectively exists and from the above this is bullshit. Moral is defined as decency, as something that's propriety or good taste, specifically as principles of right conduct, or the good, not right and wrong, it's judgmental. I don't see morality as justice, or proper behaviour, I see morality as against conventions that get you in trouble, without justice, duty, sympathy, empathy or nobility. I see it as primness, when you're acting prim, and like a gentleman, according to an old-fashioned, established posh convention, you're moral, but you're not just moral, you're aesthetic, which is the intellectual, artistic aim at beauty, trying to delight people's senses and thoughts in their heads, and aesthetics isn't working because what's prim to me is seen as a reality to be rejected, to find me contemptible for being normal, and not treat me like a human being. The reality is I don't want what's contrasted from the aesthetic, make it the "right thing", I want simply to be good, based on correct, and therefore prim, and much hated, conventions, because my morals, the morals of a posh man is a different convention to a moral person's who doesn't care that you're nice, he doesn't care that you're not nice, doesn't care about established convention of posh people, doesn't give a shit, only wants what he thinks is polite and not what politeness is: being nice to people, being considerate, being prim, being nice indiscriminately, for the good and the bad, courtesy, chivalrous, refined, honorable, gaining dignity, following aesthetic, prim and old conventions and not your definition of "the right thing", it's stupid, politeness is educated, it's learning it from a book, it means whether you believe it or not, I just say "excuse me" and say it in a nice tone. What I want is established convention and not other people's definition of moral, which isn't aesthetic, isn't educated, isn't intellectual, it's stupid, it's ugly! Nobody likes you as a mean, arsehole of a moral man against the niceness of others! Using manners is friendly, it's cordiality, it's nice, it doesn't attack on your niceness, it doesn't attack on other people's manners!