Student accommodation worker giving only me her personal number
Recently a few months ago I moved into a student accommodation.
I love it here, but a few days ago there’s this guy I live with that’s been hitting on me, following me and just being really creepy.
This guy is doing the same to one of the staff that works here and is creeping her out too.
This guy has family background problems and is 27 years of age, I’m 20 and the staff is 23. So he is older than us so that makes the situation even scarier.
He is obsessed with her and constantly wants to be around her.
The other day I had a chat with her explaining the way this guy was going on was creeping me out the fact that I live in the same building as him and is across the other apartment from me makes it more dangerous.
And we got really close. She went outside for a smoke, made me coffee, And chatted for hours about the most random things. College, family, I even told her things I wouldn’t tell others. Was like the older sister I never had. ( i have no sisters, 2 brothers btw)
She then told me not to worry that they are sorting it out, and then she gave me her personal number and told me not to give it to anyone!
I find this really sweet as she was just trying to help, but in a way it’s really unprofessional as her job.
Other people in the house have sent emails and complaint about him staring and being weird with them too.
But didn’t give them her PERSONAL number. It would be different if it was her work one but it was not.
And dunno how to really feel about it as I’m going to be living here for another 3-4 years. The relationship is confusing as I’m used to boundaries between professional and non-professional. Help!
She should be giving it to others not only you | 0 | |
She obviously really likes and cares about you | 5 | |
You should tell someone that’s not right | 0 | |
That’s really unprofessional! But sweet | 0 | |
She just wants to be close with you | 0 |