Staying distant despite being attracted

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Is it normal for a girl to stay distant from a guy despite being attracted to him?

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Based on 31 votes (22 yes)
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  • funny_guy
    7 years ago

    Btw if u like someone give them a sign because if ur always in the shadows they'll never see you(cupids riddle)

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  • funny_guy
    7 years ago

    That's what little girls do :/ but yes it's normal(i guess)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Yep and then when he is fucking your best friend you will cry.

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  • CheyChey
    7 years ago

    Yes it's very normal. I guess its the arbitrary dating "rules". Some girls shy away from being the initiators in dating because it's seen as taboo. At the risk of being a hypocrite and sounding outdated, Im a feminist but I believe that when it comes to asking a woman out on a date or expressing romantic interest, that's the man's job.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      You have a very strange definition of feminism: the dating "rules" you refer to and which I would've thought were outdated in the 21st century keep women in the passive position of waiting to be asked and men in the position of having to risk refusal.

      I'd be very interested to know your personal definition of feminism

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      • CheyChey
        7 years ago

        I fully acknowledged that assigning gender roles to dating is outdated and that as a feminist it's rather hypocritical to think like that. Some "routines" are so deeply imbedded in culture its impossible to think otherwise, I am guilty of this.

        Feminism is equality, quality in this instance is the right to ask a guy out without being labelled a man chaser etc. Some women approach men and they execute it perfectly without seeming desperate but men don't tend to value a woman who initiates. (There are statistics on that).

        Culture plus the fact that I myself though dont conform, I'm an egomaniac which is why I'll never ask a man out. I can tell him I think he's attractive but would never initiate.

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        • _Jesus_
          7 years ago

          You are hot. I'd totally bang you while you wash my dishes.

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    • scooogy
      7 years ago

      Then is it normal for her to reject him until he'd ask her out the "right" way?

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      • CheyChey
        7 years ago

        Well right now she isn't rejecting him is she. Has the guy told her? It's all a big mystery. If the guy approaches her and she wants then I don't see why not.

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