Starting smoking, cigarettes,

When I think of all the money I wasted on tobacco over the 20+ years I was addicted to it, that makes me feel really stupid.

It's been almost that long since I managed to quit, and so far it seems like I dodged the really nasty bullets, but if I have, that was pure chance.

Keep smoking if you hate yourself and you like burning money. If you hate your boyfriend also and you think he's too rich, do your best to get him hooked too.

Nooo, please try to quit, and don't try to start someone else on this dreary path. I've smoked for two thirds of my life, quit briefly a few times but started again. The times I have quit, it was long enough to realize how much better I felt, but I'm a dodo, so I started again with excuses like stress,,, blah, just quit,,,please.

Trust a birds words.

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He should take up something like knitting. When you go for a fag he comes with you and does some knitting while you chat.

If he is not ok with you smoking you should break up, not encourage him to begin this expensive and extremely unhealthy habit. I understand it is highly addictive, I would not wish it on my worst enemy. I have studied the tobacco industry extensively and it is worse than you think in ways you wouldn't even think of. Forget about this idea to get him to start.

Misery loves company. Normal to want things in common, kinda weird you want to convince someone you like to start burning money and life just so you don't hear them "complain".

You should be jailed for trying to get your boyfriend for doing dumb shit with you lmao.

... Well not jailed, but ermm...

Hung upside down while the rest of us throw apples at you!

All set aside, leave him alone. If it's his choice, then it's his choice, but don't force it.

This is like an extremely obese person wanting their in-shape partner to be equally deathly obese.

There's a reason there's a surgeon general's warning on each box. Smoking literally kills you.

There's no positive about smoking. There is nothing romantic about sharing cigarette breath kisses.

You want to kill yourself, that's one thing. You don't have the right to sucker him into your nasty habit.

I smoke because I'm hoping for an early death, and I need to cling to something.

Now reason with me, would you start shooting up if your guy wanted to share that habit with you, sweetie?

I think it's pretty normal to want that. I used to smoke and don't anymore because my boyfriend doesn't like it, and I've always wanted to smoke with a boyfriend. But you shouldn't make (or want) anybody do something they don't want to do.

I think a lot of people are misunderstanding this question and getting overemotional.
she isn't a bad person for secretly wishing her boyfriend would pick up smoking, that's just a feeling and you can't really do anything about it. however, if I'm wrong and you are actively trying to get your boyfriend to pick up the habit with you, well then yeah that's kinda fucked up.
tl;dr it's normal to feel that way but it's wrong to act on that feeling by trying to convince someone to pick up your unhealthy habit.

That is inconsiderate of you. Don't you have any consideration for his health and happiness? I can understand you wanting company, but that doesn't mean he has to be smoking as well.

EDIT: Yes there are other toxins in the world, but cigarette smoke is one of the most lethal. It kills thousands of people every year. Try to think of his health. Do you want him to get lung cancer? I doubt it. So don't push him to a smoking addiction.

If his complaints bother you so much, you should date someone who's already a smoker rather than trying to mess up someone without such an unhealthy habit.

Break up and find a a stupid addict

Dont harm the innocent guy

Tobacco is the most ridiculous drug really. All it does is satisfy the craving for itself, and that craving is in anyone who's ever smoked it.
It's the only drug I regret trying.

i smoked to see if the girls that smoked would please fuck me. it didnt work and i probably turned off girls that didnt smoke. then my smoker wife got new plastic titts and had to stop so we both did. soon she started smoking again. i didnt . then i chewed tobacco for 10 years and my wife didnt mind because i like wintergreen flavor , thats like a rootbeer. if you love this guy why do you want to kill him , smoking kills. he love you enough to complain about smoking.

if you love him why would you want to curse him with a terible addiction i smoked and gave it up wish i had the money i wasted back

Girl its not wrong to want your boyfriend to smoke with you i understand you want him to join you on your smoke breaks and have those smoke talks, where your just out there one on one. I also don't think he should be complain to you so much about your smoking, especially if he knew from the start that you're a smoker. If he doesnt like it so much he needs to sit you down and tell seriously, not nag until your so irritated you need to go to the internet.

it's wrong that your not realising how bad it is for him and yourself because you are so blinded by your need to smoke. He doesn't want you to smoke and instead of trying to change for him you are thinking about changing him (and dont compare your relationship to what other girls have done in theirs). this will never work. i understand that you just want him to spend time with you but your not looking at it through his eyes, you are only thinking about what you want him to do.

when he complains to you its because he wants to see you staying by his side when your cuddling or out in a bar/cafe instead of rushing out for a smoke; and you want to see him by your side smoking with you, asking you if you want to go outside and get away from everyone for a smoke (you can do that without smoking btw you can always go out for fresh air and i'm sure he would join you if he knew you weren't smoking).

The point is he wants you to be healthy and that is good because that means he cares about your well being, and smoking is bad i think you should try to quit for him. you will sound like an awful human being if you start saying to his face that you wished he'd smoke. It will make you sound like you don't care about his health which i'm sure you do. if your smoking and his complaining is going to be such an issue then you may have to find another relationship where you have more things in common.

Just take the butts out of the ashtray and smoke that, it's kind of sharing a cigarette

Maybe you should take up smoking crack together? A fresh start, both on equal footing.

You know what Becky I think were all wrong and you're right. You just want some company nothing wrong here. Something's gonna kill everyone anyways. Lmfao why shouldn't he develop a chemical dependency like you? Why wish the best for him, he's only your boyfriend. Fucking hell. What rotten sick shit. Arguably one of the most revolting posts I've seen on this site, and I read everything. Get fucked dude

i have two brother that drag about oxygen to breath in what's left of their lungs , they still smoke. Everyone can chose their death. only the smart chose life.

Oh you would really like your boyfriend to increase his chances to catch cancer? Then I wish that he drops your psycho bitch ass you sick cunt. What the hell is wrong in your head?