Should sluts be slut shamed?

The question is......

SHOULD THEY BE SHAMED??????????????

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  • Freely choosing to express and satisfy your sexual needs with other willing partners is not shameful at all as long as there are no lies involved. Nor do I consider these people to be sluts at all.

    What is a Slut for you? Please provide your working definition.

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  • As far as I'm concerned, who people have sex with and how many people they have sex with is entirely their business. It has no direct impact on my life, so why the hell should I care about that any more than I care about what they have for lunch or what sort of music they enjoy listening to?

    Slut shaming is always about either needing to feel morally superior to someone else, feelings of envy, or some combination of the two.

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  • Take a lesson from Jesus. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

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  • Sure anyone can be shamed for anything its not your right to be free of offense. With that being said I think it's rude. But people are free to be rude.

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    • Should and can are two very different things. But should people be shamed for being rude? Absolutely.

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      • It depends on what you consider shaming. If it is something like people saying "you're an asshole" then yes I agree but if shaming includes serious harrassment and attempting to ruin the rude persons life I think thats also wrong.

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        • Just depends on how rude the person was being. As long as the punishment fits the crime, I don’t see anything wrong with it.

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          • This will lead to authoritarianism and I will explain why.
            The million dollar question: who gets to decide whats rude? The government? What if a guy like Trump is running your government? Do you want him to be the decider of whats rude?

            And also is it possible that the government could determine something that is 100% true as being rude? I think yes. Someone could even punish you for speaking out about something like the gender pay gap or whatever. Anytime you wish for something you need to always think out the reaction. Because every action has a reaction. Sometimes its better not to even open doors.

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            • I meant “punishment fits the crime” figuratively, not literally. The level of shaming should match how rude the person was being.

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  • Does it count as slut shaming if people send me unwanted dick or pussy pics and I share them with people and we all laugh at the sender? XD

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    • Sounds more like sexual harassment.

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      • I never understood the point in sending nudes to someone. Like, did they expect me to go "oh wow, those are such nice genitals I wanna date you now". All they're doing is just making themselves look like fools. XD

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        • It's like here's some blackmail material material for you, just in case you want to blackmail me. 😂

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  • Personally I don't care. Just let em' bang who they want as long as everyone involved is of the proper age and consenting.

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  • Depends. If they just had a lot of partners that's not really something to shame on.

    If you go out of your way to be a vector of disease then yeah I'll call you out. Guys, gals I'll shame both.

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  • The psychology behind a very promiscuous woman is generally poor self esteem, which is sad, and should not be "shamed".

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  • No, any adult can have consensual sex with as many other adults as they want and it's not my business.
    I certainly don't admire people who sleep with many partners and I wouldn't like to date one. As long as I'm not involved in any way though, not my business.

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  • If you shame people for being sluts, you can't complain if it's hard for you to get any action - people aren't gonna give it away if doing so is looked down upon.

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  • As long as they are being responsible, using protection, and not breaking up relationships

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  • Depends, define slut!

    I had a friend at work, that did(nsa) every married guy she could(most of them). It was sort of a self challenge for her I think. Now to me she was a slut and I'm sure their wives would have agreed and had no problem slut shaming her. However, in my book, the guys were just as bad if not worse.

    She was just having fun as far as she was concerned. Shouldn't the guys be shamed and called sluts.

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  • There is no “should” in regards to anything.

    Just do or don’t......

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  • Define a slut? What's the number of sexual partner's? Is it the same number as the number for men, and women?

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  • perhaps we should shame those who are bias enough to believe that others need shamed.

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  • my question is, why do people care how many people youve slept with. are you jelous? no, let sluts be sluts, be who you are <3

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  • If you're fucking every person you come across, then be prepared to be labeled a slut and shamed for it. Yes, I think they deserve to be shamed.

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  • No shame. They perform a valuable service

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  • no, as long as they didn't do that shit when they were kids, in which case yes.

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  • And DICK THINKERS SHOULD BE CASTRATED

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    • I have this image in my mind of "The Thinker" jerking off, thanks to you.

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  • Anyway, I don't like derogatory slang words to label women, so definitely not.

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  • Its their life, as long as both parts consent and they are honest about whether they want casual sex or long term relationship it's fine and mainly their business.

    But people should be warned and made to think about the potential bad consequences like STDs and unwanted pregnancy (which can happen even while on birth control) as well as whether they want to be single for real, without sex or attention when they do get old. In the end its their choice either way and both parts contribute.

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  • I mean my boyfriend calls me a slut and where with regularity outside if that can't say anyone does. I do slit shame people jokingly though. They so it back. It works

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  • No

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  • https://youtu.be/6WWBiIu7Z_Y

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