Should i want to leave my gf because she is a complete slob?

That sounds like hell, but I can't recommend leaving with winter on the way. Otherwise stay for a few more months and keep searching for a better place, then take off.

"I can't even go to a shelter because I have a criminal background. In my state if you have a record of any kind, you are immediately banned from homeless shelters and banned from any kind of subsidised housing"

That's bullshit. You are either lying or ill-informed.

You say you moved in with her out of desperation, so make the best of the situation until you can better yourself. Why don't you clean it up? If it's a home vs living on the streets or a shekter, then put in the work and just clean up. Or if she won't let you then keep living there and save your money to get a different place.

She sounds gross. I think you should find someone cleaner.

It definitely makes sense to want to leave, but your best option seems to be just trying to make your living situation a little nicer for the time being--you could try to start washing the dishes or do some laundry, even though you shouldn't have to do her cleaning up for her. You could also look for potential roommates through the Internet, though.

You should get a jod and went have enugh money rent a small house and move on from there puess on

You should just stay with her until you figure out a better place to stay. It's better than living homeless, especially during the winter.

That lady isn't normal

If you can find somewhere else to live, get out. I dated a woman like this. Every time was at her apartment/half-duplex, it was filthy, with dirty kitchen, disgusting bathroom, bedroom, and living room that a bulldozer couldn't help. Tried telling her nicely and in fun, hey, clean this shithole, but she never listened. I even offered to help, said we'd take a weekend and do a cleaning blitz. No-go.

One night, I was talking to the (rather hot) woman next door, bringing her a UPS envelope that had been left at the wrong door, and went inside to see her half of the duplex. So clean, well-done, updated. Very nice. Woman I was dating freaked out at me, saying I was fucking her next door neighbor, yelling at me, all this crap..That's when I got honest and a bit mean, telling her, I'm not fucking her, BUT..Wouldn't mind, since I wouldn't have concern about roaches crawling on me in bed or seeing mice in the kitchen, like at your place. Clean it the fuck up, you pig.. Whole thing went very bad, but, she had to hear it up front, this place is filthy and I'm done dealing with it, and you.

No alcohol or drug abuse at all. I am constantly cleaning up and doing dishes, laundry, etc. But the sheer amount of waste and mess she produces on a daily basis is absolutely astonishing. I have to completely dedicate every minute to picking up after her. For example... She gets a glass of juice and drinks it. She immediately wants another glass of juice and gets a completely new glass. Same with bowls of soup. She eats a second or third bowl, she gets a clean bowl. Ive never seen anything like it. Shes completely wasteful in how she lives. She will stand RIGHT NEXT TO THE GARBAGE CAN AND STILL THROW FOOD AND GARBAGE ON THE FLOOR!!!!There is no rhyme or reason for how she lives. It drives me crazy.

Does she have any drug addiction problem or alcohol abuse?

It sounds like she could be depressed. Maybe try encouraging her positively, she may think your just complaining and is digging her heels in more,it's not healthy or normal to live like that and get yourself out of the house too, go for a walk, volunteer, anything. Your just stuck in a bad situation at the moment, so ride it out for now, Try to stay positive, good luck.

Why don't you try & spruce the place up? A little tidying here & there could work miracles. In the mean time save some cash & find a place of your own.

Come on, having any roof over your head is better than living rough.

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