Should i tell partner im bi

For a second I thought I knew who posted this because it's coincidentally applicable to me right now. There's a girl I'm interested in and we've been on about half a dozen dates so far. Last night we had a really deep heart-to-heart where she admitted to me that she's bisexual. We're not even dating yet, but I'm so glad that she told me. I can imagine it was scary for her because there are sadly too many garbage people who would respond with hostility or looking for fetish fuel

When she asked me how I felt about her coming out as bi, my honest answer was "It actually makes me feel really lucky that I'm still in the running considering that I've got all the more competition"

You should definetly tell him. Dump him if he reacts the following way:

- He acts homophobic and says you're a sinner.

- He gets paranoid and assumes you'll cheat on him because there's an unfair stereotype that bisexuals NEED a male and a female

- He suddenly expects you to have three ways all the time.

I'm bi and when I was using dating websites to meet men and women, I ghosted their asses the second they mentioned any of that nonsense. I'm a monogamous human with no intention of dealing with crap.

Assuming you two are very early into the relationship, now's the time to tell him.

I don't get the coming out stuff. Like, before going to pride say like "yea I get to see full of women like me. I'm sick of only being with men"

Yes because you can't surpress who you really are and someday you're going to get the urge to be with a woman.

To what gain? If you want him and him alone there is no gain aside from not having to explain why there are women in your porn stash