Should i move on
My husband and I have been married for 16yrs, but we've been together for 23yrs total. The 1st 2 yrs of our relationship was wonderful, including sex life, after 2 yrs, our sex life declined. I married him 4 yrs later (after the decline) as he's my best friend and we have a wonderful friendship, also, I thought things would change after marriage, but it didn't. I questioned him many times about the change in our sex life, he initially said he had erectile dysfunction which was frustrating for him to pursue intimacy, so he eventually got viagra, which things got better for a bit, then returned back to decreased intimacy/sex. In addition to not having much of a sex life, he never looks at me naked. If I get out of the shower and walk into the bedroom naked, he always turn his head or look down (this has been going on for 21yrs). For yrs, I questioned his sexual preference (men), he denied it. Fast forwarding to present day, he recently told me (2-3 months ago) that he has an addiction to porn (for 21yrs), and because he's so used to looking at perfect images of women for years, he does not find me sexually attractive. Dealing with rejection for years has significantly affected my self esteem. He keeps saying he's going to get counseling (for the last 2-3 months),but he has not even taken the 1st step in that direction. I love him but, I'm ready to move on now that I know the truth behind his behavior.