Should i keep initiating communication?
I began chatting with someone from a dating app. She's nice, and we have many things in common. But I've noticed that since we began chatting directly (outside the dating app) a few weeks ago, I'm the one who has to reach out to her.
I don't text often. In fact, I reach out, and we have an active chat for a while. But then, several days (3 or 4) go by, and I hear nothing. If I reach out again, we can have another good chat. We've even spoken by phone! And she mentioned during a followup text chat that she'd had a good time during our call.
I'm obviously interested in this lady, and we seem to be able to converse. But I'm becoming annoyed that I must be the one to initiate contact each time.
I don't know the best way to express the disappointment at being the initiator.
Anyway, is this normal? And what would you do — if in the same scenario?