She's 19, i'm 27
She just turned 19 and I just turned 27. We seem to have a genuine connection. We've met once for a full day, and then have been long distance. We've been talking on the phone for hours regularly for 4 months and have a lot of the same interests. She tells me how she's never liked anyone like this before. I feel the same but it doesn't sit well with me for a few reasons.
I'm concerned for her. At 19 I feel like she should experience meeting people her age. I don't think I'm exactly taking advantage of her, but by spending time with me I just feel like she's missing out.
In her mind, it's justified for her not to date anyone else because we have long term potential. We fantasize about marriage and what we could look like in 4-5 years.
I do really like her, feel long term potential, and hope that it could last forever . I've dated around in the last 5 years. Girls who were older, the same age, and younger and she feels like the best fit.. But I worry this is foolishness. I think she's probably going to change a lot in the next 1-2-3 years and that will end things for us. I'm not looking for something fun or interesting.. I want something that will really last.
I don't think she's old enough to truly understand how much she is likely to change in the coming years, so hearing her say that she could see being with me forever doesn't really comfort me.
is it normal for a 19 yo and a 27 yo to try and be in a relationship?