She can't decide

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I've known a girl for a little over 6 months now and I'm not sure if she's just a tease or if something actually might happen. We went on a date before, have good chemistry, but I made some poor choices and she stopped wanting to see me. Now for the past few months she started seeing a guy and that only lasted couple weeks and now she has an internet boyfriend but all this time she's still been hitting me up. She frequently flirts with me, talks about sex and shows interest in my life, and then goes completely cold. I've had a few sleepless nights about her and it's becoming really unhealthy for me. We share mutual friends but, this on-again off-again friendship is starting to kill me. My perceived options are below, thanks in advance. And please comment

Try to be friends but remain emotionally distant 9
Continue this are we or aren't we dance 0
Make my intentions known 17
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Yes, she is clearly playing games. I would delete the number and not bother spending any time with her again AT ALL. Just going off your post you would deserve far better treatment.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      No I deserve this. I used to like her but now I just want her for sex. The only reason why I hang on is out of shame and pride.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I think, n matter what HER intentions or motivations, you have answered your own question; "it's becoming really unhealthy for me".
    I wouldn't even waste time thinking you can maintain a friendship; just move on.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    She's playing games, just showing enough interest to keep you around and leaving you hanging so you'll want more. There's nothing special about her and she probably doesn't want a relationship with you, she just likes the attention when she's bored or alone. Her emotional capacity is about as deep as a baby pool, find yourself a new lady to shower with attention.

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  • Hutvic
    9 years ago

    This is not the girl for your future. Get the gift and move on. She'll make the decision in the near future when and how often she wants to give you the gift but don't bring your emotions to the table.

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    She's not worth your trouble. Go find someone who actually appreciates you. You'll be 10x happier. I'm speaking from experience

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  • yugosks
    9 years ago

    She's playing games. Don't make a fool of yourself.

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