Sex toy double standard

It seems to me that there's a double standard when it comes to sex toys. It's not seen as remotely strange for a woman to use vibrators or dildos but there seems to be a stigma to a man owning something like a fleshlight.
I've seen a lot of people saying that for a man to own a fleshlight he's either a pervert, he can't get any or sex is all he cares about yet none of those things would be thrown at a woman who owns a dildo or vibrator so what are your opinions on it? How would it make you feel If you found out a guy you were interested in owned a fleshlight and how do you think this double standard has come to exist? Do you even believe it does exist? Etc

I would be weirded out, must be a looser\perverted\cant get a woman 5
A man has as much of a right to use a sex toy as a woman 49
It's just not as ingrained into society. Give it time 7
It's because a male orgasm takes less efforts to achive, seems pointle 3
I would find a woman having a sex toy to be strange 5
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Comments ( 13 )
  • NeofelisNebulosa

    Men have every right to use sex toys. It's not only men that have to face a stigma about sex toys, you know. I can't even own a vibrator in this household for fear my mother will end up finding it. My mother frowns upon masturbation as a perverted activity that people do when they can't find an actual sex partner. Fucking impossible religious standards. Don't have sex before marriage, but don't masturbate either! I guess it would be easy for someone with no sex drive, but that's not me.

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    • CDmale4fem

      Gee Autumn, if your mom is that uptight, maybe I should come visit you for a coulpe days. She would probably end up calling a priest, and wanting a cleansing on the house. I am just a happy go lucky kind of guy, Im usually relaxed, and easy going. However, I also am one that masturbates, but I usually am doing so while wearing lingerie, bra, skirt, or something in the damn that feels really good spectrum of things. You think she would have a fit if someone came to visit, and all he brought was a suitcase full of bras, panties, and nightgowns ? Oh yea, I am a crossdresser.

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    • mystery7

      That reminds me of an Eastern European TV ad I saw where the young woman hears the sound of a vibrator coming from the kitchen. Kind of panic stricken, she rushes to investigate and it's her grandmother...

      <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIgjfXCZfrA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIgjfXCZfrA</a>

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  • mypenisinyourmouth

    Flashlights are useful when it's dark and you're alone.

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  • Gspyder

    There is a stigma against it, but who cares. Most people Won't know anyway

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    If the guy I fancy owns a fleshlight, I honestly wouldn't care. What he enjoys doing in private is nothing for me to look down on. Is it weird if I'd want to watch him use it? XD

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    • Not at all, but maybe a little audience participation might help ;) XD

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        I'd be a willing participant. lol

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        • YAY!!

          * grabs tub of penut butter *

          I predict this will come in handy?

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          • Cuntsiclestick

            Yep, but it's missing one thing:

            *grabs a tub of jelly*

            How could you forget the jelly?! It's the most important part in all of this!

            *hands you a spoon and some bread*

            Lets make those sandwiches!

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  • DarkLord1776

    I think it has more to do with the stigma that all men have to do to get off is put their hand on their penis and move it up and down.

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    • sexysonofsam

      In my case I have to move it up and down many many many many times before I can cum, both my arms actually get very tired before I can cum. i am constantly thinking of new ways to get load off.

      At present I am considering one of those automated pumps that they sell at the sex stores, although they are very expensive I am sure that they will work wonders for my dick. I am tired of masturbating for hours before cumming.
      Have you ever tried one those pumps?

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  • Never owned one, thought I'd try one out at some point. I don't take any issue with men owning one, though. People like to masturbate even if they are having sex so there's nothing wrong with it. :)

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