Question for gay christians
So ... this has bothered me for a while now.
Why do gay believers think God approves of their choice? If you read the Bible it never approves of homosexuality. References to romantic relationships are always between biological men and women.
For instance in Sodom (where the word sodomites comes from) an angel literally pulled Lot and his family out of the city and God burnt it to a crisp.
In the New testament homosexuality is listed multiple times with theft, adultery, murder, etc as a sin that will condemn you.
The justifications that I keep hearing is that God loves everyone and gay people don't have a choice, that they're born that way. God does love everyone but he hates sin and will deny sinners from heaven. This is the point of repentance and forgiveness... If you keep on sinning God still loves you but he can't admit you into heaven since he's holy.
Regarding the born this way argument, I don't agree with that. I believe that it's a combination of nature (empathetic and insecure) and nurture (judgemental environment, deep seated trauma) that manifests in a perverted sense of self.