Pregnant and hes making me feel unwanted do i give him space?

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im currently pregnant with my second child from a man i have been with for two years the father of my second child also has another baby who is four. i feel like he is not giving me the attention i want....it makes me feel kinda down that hes not as happy as i am so down that i dont even think i should be around him as much as i want to...like the other day we spent an hour together and then he sent me on my way home so he can go play golf...that was a slap in the face for me i also have a two year old girl and work on top of that have a mortgage to pay with back pains i know he may be stressed but so am i and now not sure what to do with him ....any advice?

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  • :)BABYDOLL:)
    12 years ago

    ..babycenter-community..

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  • Pendletongurl
    12 years ago

    Get a support system going for yourself. If he isn't that supportive now, what do you think he'll do later on. He may not be attracted to you while you are pregnant. It isn't always our best time. to be attractive while we as women are going through the various stages of pregnancy. He can enjoy the action, but doesn't like the consequences afterward. Time to really examine your relationship with him realistically, and set down some rules. If he doesn't like them, he will more than likely want to move on. Some men are funny that way. Some love women when they are pregnant, others are repulsed by it. Go figure. Some guys just can't deal with women when their hormones are going haywire during pregnancy, even afterward until the body adjusts to normal. But find out also what he thinks about the pregnancy deal, and even if you want to spout off, that won't be the time. In the mean time, treat yourself kindly. Do stuff to make you feel pretty. It will help you cope.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yes give him space lots of it

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