My wife has suggested stripping to pay bills

You could start stripping too to make it even

If she can do it, meaning..If she can do well, I'd say let her. Most guys in those places know it's a show, they have no shot, and the women are doing it for money to support whatever..Kids, education, etc. If guys are dumb enough to throw money away like that (and many are), she should be smart enough to take it.

I used to work with a woman who danced at a club, for side money, out of the area we lived. She was a single mom, homeowner, and, I can attest..We made jack dick squat money where we worked. I was single and lived alone, and I barely made a living.

Anyway, "Jackie" invited me out to see her, in her words "shaking it" one night, and I went. Have to say, she put on a hell of a hot, sexy show. Fit body, did her hair a bit, jet-red nails..the works. Was onstage doing her thing, guys were tossing cash to her, and she was waving at me. I gave her some cash, too, and she later joked "you didn't have to give me anything..I know what you make!". She was good at it, and even continued dancing after she moved. The cash was just too good to quit.

You sound like an interesting creature. Like many people in the elite 1%, I screw people for their money. You make people think about screwing you for their money. I am enchanted by your Modus Operandi.

One has to trust their wife/gf in order for this to work. My wife works for my uncle in his bar as a topless/often naked bartender/,cocktail waitress. This job pays extremely well and I trust her completely. Sure she gets groped a little but doesn't
Let it go too far as she controls the situation. My uncle is always present and I often am there also. It all depends on trust. Do you think YOU can handle it though? Respond please...

I Know this sounds crazy but let her. I knew a girl who did some stripping and she loved it. she said it really made her come out of her shell and being lusted over by lots of men made her sex drive go ballistic! Lucky you if you let her!!!!!

sounds like a bad idea to be honest..

Besides them possibly drugging her I'd tell you if the money is right & you both are able to get past her playing with & having sex with other men you oughta encourage her to keep doing it, would also be a good thing & help her open up & become more liberated sexually which would also be a perk for you

Hard to make judgments when folks are broke, but still a risky business.

Her stripping is unacceptable. You may not own her as a person, but as her husband you own the right to be the sole person who gets to see and enjoy her body sexually. That she would even be 'excited' or even consider this is morally indefensible.

As long as you pick her up after work.never understand .why men go to these clubs if you have seen 1you have seen them all

I guess if you're a bitch

ok so personally I would suggest online webcaming shows such as myfreecams or chatturbate.. its all through a webcam and no real interaction with other people! The other seems a little too much but maybe i'm living more old school ways.

I don't think anything good can come outta this scenario.

A lot of you guys that posted were right.
My wife has now told me that she didn't come home last night because she had sex with two men at a room at the club. She said the money was too good to turn down and there was a lot of pressure from the boss to "look after" these clients.
she was also given something to relax her by one of the other girls. Some sort of rape drug she thinks.
She's pretty upset and although she still wants to consider stripping, she said that she'd never go back to that club again. I'm angry at her friend for recommending it and not looking after her but what can i do but blame myself for allowing her to be put in the position that she was in.

There are many places that the girls only need to strip naked, maybe a little fondling, and nothing else happens. The money might not be as good but she could make enough to help your cause. She sounds like a great woman and wife.

wife came back this morning, she stayed over at her friends in town after finishing at the club. She made quite a bit of money for one night but has decided not to go back because some of the guys were quite rough with her and she had to do a bit on stage with another girl which isn't her thing. She did say she wanted to be honest with me and she said that she did a few Hand and blow jobs that the guys pretty much expected as standard at that club. she was tipped well for it but she knows the boss wanted her to do more, the other girls were mainly prostitutes so she quit. I'm so proud of her for doing what she did for us

It's a bad idea.

Her friend is hyping the job up, and making it look glamorus; however, it'll make her high risk. Meaning that if something were to go wrong (rape, kidnapping, etc), who will protect her? The bouncer? The greedy business owner? Her friend? Does your girlfriend have thick skin, and can handle herself easily in confrontations? Strippers have to deal with the lowest of the low sometimes, people who can be downright disrespectful; and the prettier you are the more attention you'll get, most being unwanted. She needs to be prepared to stand up for herself.

Also, there are jobs out there, she just have to look closly and try harder. For example, she can be a delivery girl (UPS, USPS, FedEx, etc), which pays a decent amount. Or become a nurse with just a few classes and more job to choose from.

I do trust my wife but I spoke to her stripper friend and I now know that at this place the girls lap dance in booths that have curtains that the clients can pull across for privacy.
Because the girls are naked, they get fingered and groped a lot. But if they want a heavy tip, most of the girls let the men fuck them. What I'm concerned about is if she is offered enough, she might remind herself that we need the money and end up taking the money.

do what yo got to do

You cant control your wife its her choice and if shes willing then go for it but remember to trust your wife and to express your concerns. You guys are together and you have a voice in this too so talk to her but dont try and control her about what she can and cant do.

no it's not wrong for you to refuse to allow this. I'd refuse even if it was a more reputable club.
If you're not ok with it then you're not ok with it.

FINALLY another person with common sense