My wife cheated and

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So this is a very odd one. I'll jump right into it. Basically I had to use my wife's phone to use the roku remote app. She was acting all weird about giving me her phone and I noticed while going through her apps to find roku she had an app called "MeetUp". I opened MeetUp and saw she was talking to several guys. I was very surprised and caught off guard by this.

So I set down the phone and thought about it before I reacted. I always try to not make decisions when I'm emotional. But for some weird reason I wanted to have sex with my wife at that moment. I had sex with her and I find myself really going after her like we were young again. I mentioned that I saw the app and she said she'd stop but I don't believe her. For some reason this made our sex life improve drastically. I'm usually a jealous guy and part of me is saying this is very weird but the other part doesn't care.

What are your opinions on this? I dont consider myself a cuck and I dont want to see her cheat on me but something about this whole experience has improved our sex lives.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    3 years ago

    So just a cuck with extra steps

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I guess its not the worst thing I've been called

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        3 years ago

        I would've thought of something worse if I deviated more time to it.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    My friends are in an open marriage. From what I can tell, it’s the pride from her choosing you when she does. But honestly their relationship is falling apart.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      3 years ago

      Very low sucess rate in opens. Too inconsistent of emotions. I'm 0 for 2.

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    • Mammal-lover
      3 years ago

      Most of those relationships fail. I grew up around swingers and they were miserable. Idk. I was around to much trailer trash growing up.

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        3 years ago

        Over the years I've known a few married people who had open relationships. They mostly ended with their partner leaving them for one of the other people they slept with. It's why I'd never recommend an open relationship to people.

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        • Mammal-lover
          3 years ago

          Yea pretty much. I'm not exactly monogamous but like idk it's a slippery slope

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  • leggs91200
    3 years ago

    About as normal as the young women on here who have never been on a date and no one flirts with them,
    the straight guy who wants to suck cock,
    the man who likes to steal his best friend's mom's panties,
    the men who want to sniff women's anus,

    did I leave anyone out?

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  • mike41549
    3 years ago

    I think its a normal feeling at first than Doubt, jealous and contempt moves in.
    The relationship will end bad unless you both become swingers
    And accept it

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  • MyZephyr
    3 years ago

    When my wife had her affair, several years ago, we had the dirtiest sex. Since then I've become a bit of a cuck as watching her fuck is brilliant

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  • Diaperdean
    3 years ago

    Have a threesome!!

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  • 4sure4you
    3 years ago

    it,s nornal. My girlfriend broke up with me and she used to call me when she was getting fucked by her new boyfriend, it must have turned her on and me too listen to her getting fucked ..

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    Human sexuality is a very broad area. Some people function best with more than one partner.

    Also, often other relationships start because one of the partner is not satisfied with something key to them.

    I strongly suggest that both of you read "The 5 Love Languages" and be sure that you are actually able to properly communicate with each other (This book has helped more relationships than about all other books combined: The author really discovered something key to a relationship, and communicates it well.

    Beyond that: Open marriages are common. Just define the rules up front and understand what you will do if there is a pregnancy - and be sure to communicate and get agreement on that with any other partners. There are several books out there that help you understand the issues to be considered and different ways to handle them.

    I believe that the reason you now find your wife so hot is that you realize that she is attractive to other's... In my opinion, that's a good thing.

    I wish you the best,

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  • Iszzy123
    3 years ago

    Maybe she wants attention

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  • CoastalDoc
    3 years ago

    Make sure to get tested for STD's. I have seen men get them and then they have to explain to their wife she needs to get tested. You might already have something.

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  • --
    3 years ago

    pussy

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    3 years ago

    Sounds like you felt you had to prove to her and to yourself that you were still good in bed or something.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I dont think that's it. Its like it just made her more desirable.

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      • WaitCanIDoThat
        3 years ago

        maybe the thought that other men found her attractive could have reinforced that?

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