My girlfriend lost her virginity to my childhood best friend

I just found out that my girlfriend of 5 years lost her virginity at 14 to my best friend at the time. I don’t know wether to be put off by this or turned on.

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  • If she wasn't dating you when this happened you ought to get over it.

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  • Was this before or after ya all was dating?

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  • We've all got a past, if you dwell on things, they will weigh heavy, after 5 years with this girl, i would assume you feel that you have some kind of future with her, don't let this affect the way you are with her.
    Who she lost her virginity to is immaterial, as is whoever you lost your own virginity to.
    Its in the past, let it stay there and move on.

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  • Not a good selection of answers. Where is the choice ignore it, or get back at him fu-- his current gf or wife.

    If you had been mature enough when she was 14 maybe you would have been the one. She's not with him now or for the last 5 years, he must not have been that great.

    Everyone loses it to somebody and very few work out to be married or long term. Some that do end up long term, end up looking for a little strange or different later in life.

    Look at the positive side at least you know who it was and don't have to wonder about every close friend she has.

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  • So what? You make out with your best friend's mother, and call it evens

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  • Your girlfriend was under age when she lost her virginity which may suggest her immaturity and not her promiscuity. I know that it can be difficult seeing as this involves your best friend but she is your friend too. My wife was married before and I am friendly with her ex-husband. When we meet I don't even think about their previous relationship because we have all moved on. So, don't be 'put off' just enjoy each other's company.

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  • Leave her.

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  • What a Kahunt. Everyone who loses their virginity as a minor is a piece of trash. Not sorry.

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  • Big deal. My ex-wife has a child with my father.

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  • everyone losses their at some time to someone, get over it.

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  • Well after she lost her virginity to your friend at 14, how many other guys, in the neighborhood, did she service after that?

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  • Make sure she's not with him.

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  • Don't leave the two of them alone together.

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