My friends purposely left me out of their party

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My friends birthday party was today, and they didn't invite me. I don't care if I'm not invited but it was just the fact that before the party, they always bragged about it near me and mentioned that I wasn't invited every 2 seconds. Turns out, they told my other friend I was too "embarrasing" to invite. I dont know what I should do now, I'm not looking to start drama, this whole things just making me feel not good enough. What should I do? I'm at home while my entire friend group is hanging out and having fun.

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  • Jh9856
    1 year ago

    You should cut them off right now, and stay away from this kind of morons.

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  • Grunewald
    1 year ago

    People are mean. I am so sorry. Cutting them off immediately might be a bit hard on you - what do you do when you have no friends at all? And why bring down on yourself all the drama that suddenly cutting ties with everyone would produce?

    You'd do well to dip your toe in the water of someone else's crowd and see if they do that same sort of thing to anyone, then if they seem safe, 'quiet quit' your non-friends by just interacting with them/meeting up with them less and less over time until you drop off each other's radar. A calculated 'drifting apart'.

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  • jethro
    1 year ago

    Dump them all and find new friends. Because they are not really your friends at all.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Oh dear, what on God's green Earth ever gave you the idea that these people are your friends? I do kinda feel like maybe these are your colleagues from work, or something. Maybe those people are your acquaintances, but they certainly aren't your friends. I hope that you can get away from these people, and go no contact. These people don't like you, honey. 😔

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    They arent your friends unfortunately. These types will use you for whateber you have and then always bail if something better is happening. I would tell them what they did was fucked and then block them.

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    Thems not your friends.

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    This actually happened to me last year. We are no longer friends.

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  • Dusty_Dr3ad
    1 year ago

    Thanks, I'll try to talk to them about it and if they dont fix their act I'm finding new friends.

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  • raisinbran
    1 year ago

    You have to conform if you want friends.

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