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my ex had a blood kink and he used to have me cut my stomach on video call so he could jack off. it made me feel good to get him off but i hated cutting myself. is it normal?
There are women who are into this, and that's fine. But anyone who asks a reluctant partner to injure themselves just so they can get off is obviously someone with serious issues.
Breaking up with him was the best thing you could do, since it's possible his requests could have turned into demands and escalated to more extreme acts.
Probably not, and that's a good thing you ended the relationship or else it'll turn into s o m e t h i n e l s e
If your boyfriend has a blood kink you probably shouldn't be dating him. This is NOT normal.
Wow thats messed up. Hopefully that isn't normal, or the world is full of crazy people.
It's not normal, it's not the strangest fetish I suppose. Did he every try and drink your blood, or do something like that?
What the fuck? Hell no, girl! Even if I was more horribly depressed, and actually cutting myself as a coping mechanism I wouldn't ever do that for some scumbag. What a selfish bastard, there's nothing special about hurting yourself so a piece of shit like him can get off. He's a giant steaming piece of shit!
When someone you are dating asks you to do something like that not only should you say no, but the first time some scumbag asks you to hurt yourself so he can get off should be the last time, the best thing you can do is to dump that sort of person like the big, steaming turd he is.
Blood kinks are relatively common. In that way, i'd say it's normal. If you pretended to be into it to get him off and complain once the relationship is over, i don't feel bad for you at all. It's his kink and you could have said no. With that being said, if you DID say no and he manipulated you or forced you into it, of course it's not normal and it's not okay.