My ex-best friend and i got in a big fight

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So I made a friend last September, and we were really close. I would help her work through family issues, stalker ex-boyfriend, and depression issues, but recently we got into a fight over a really stupid thing. I went over to her place to hang out, and left covered in bug bites (we were inside the entire time because it was really hot out). I later asked her if she possibly had bed bugs or something like that and she got super defensive and stopped talking to me.

I waited like a week for things to die down and then I tried to message her on Facebook and Instagram. I found out she had blocked me on both accounts so I texted her. She responded with 'who is this'. Great, she deleted my number. I told her it was me and she said that she didn't want to be friends with me anymore and that I should stop trying to contact her.

Is it my fault? Or do I just have shitty taste in friends?

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  • Anonfolk
    6 years ago

    either way she overeacted and you're in the right. don't panic. Some people are just really hard to talk to directly and when faced with an awkward or embarrasssing situation, would rather do this kind of thing

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Wow!

    Is she a dirty person? Are you absolutely sure it wasn't a rash or hives or something? Yeah, maybe she really does have critters, and is ashamed which is why she's so defensive. Still I think she overreacted. Were you rude when you asked her? Did she have bug bites too?

    Maybe it was fleas?

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    • [Old Memory]
      6 years ago

      She had no bites, and I think that I was polite... I asked her over Facebook so...

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