My boyfriend's a communist

My boyfriend has the hammer and hook thing tattooed on his neck he's 26 and I never knew what it was until I asked him the other day and I've only heard bad things about communists and it's making me nervous we have only been dating for two months and he isn't my boyfriend yet but I consider him to be because we have dated for two months and I don't know what to do now because I really like him and he has a really good job that makes a lot of money I dunno it okay that he's a communist

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  • CicaDraza

    He’s a Marxist. Reads Karl Marx. Believes in the global revolution and dialectical materialism and eradicating the bourgeois. That’s a thing. That’s a normal thing that some people are, that some people like.

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  • Pera_Zdera

    In my country Yugoslavia society as whole was owner of everything, we had free education, medical treatments, apartmans, vacations, bonuses at end of year...
    Every factory, and workplace had workers councils, where workers democratically made decisions. Also we we were not been isolated from the West, American cinema, music and culture was very popular. Western academics like Jean-Paul Sartre was regular gests in Belegrade. Google about Yugoslava and Tito, and stop beliving everything you see in your corporate capitalist media.
    Sorry on my English.

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  • maomaomao

    More than half of Russians (64%) would vote to maintain the Soviet Union

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  • nanana34

    Stalin did nothing wrong

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  • Reinhard

    Would you be asking this same question if your boyfriend was a Nazi?

    Well, do a little research. Want to hear about real genocide? Read about what the USSR did to the Ukraine in the early 1930s; seven million intentionally starved to death. Google for "Holodomor" if you want to learn more.

    Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn's writings are quite long, and it's expecting too much to ask you to start off by reading his books. But sometime later you should at least give them a look. The Soviet communists started off their rule by systematically crushing the native population. Anyone who seemed to be a little smarter than average, more successful than average, more independent and self-reliant than average, etc, was at risk of being sent to the gulags for a ten year sentence on phony charges, or even summarily shot.

    Wanna hear about some real lunacy? Read a little about Bela Kun, who ran early Communist Hungary. Practially every right of private property ripped away from ordinary citizens; even ordinary personal possessions. There were even laws limiting how many pairs of pants and how many shoes you could own.

    There are thousands of other examples, way too many to list here. The massacres at Vinnitsa and in the Katyn Forest come to mind, and although the truth about those was covered up for many years (both happened during WWII, and the US government didn't want Americans to be confronted with the fact that one of our allies was pulling nasty shit like that), the truth about both is now publicly available; again, Google is your friend.

    The point is this. I asked if you'd be asking the same question if your boyfriend was a Nazi. Well, the Soviet Communists made Hitler look like nothing more than a schoolboy having a temper tantrum. That might sound like blasphemy to some, but it's nothing more than the plain truth.

    There are four possibilites for why he willingly aligns with that.

    One is that he's just immature. Teenagers do things sometimes just to shock the hell out of their parents and the rest of society. Hey, I understand that, I'm 19 myself. But c'mon, there are limits. And your boyfriend is 26, I'd think he'd be starting to grow up a little by now.

    The second possibility is that he's truly ignorant of how bad Communism is. But you said he lived in Russia until he was 18. So he doesn't have that excuse. Sure, those things weren't talked about openly in Russia, but you can be sure they were whispered about.

    The third possibility is that he's just stone cold evil. Maybe he's one of those who doesn't mind people getting screwed over, locked away, or even killed, as long as they're the people *he* thinks *should* be screwed over, etc.

    And the final possibility is that he's just an idiot and a fool.

    Whichever it is, I really have to question whether this guy is good boyfriend material.

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    • Legion

      There is some possibility of ignorance, being that communism fell the year he was born, so there has been enough time passed that there are adults in Russia who have never experienced Communism, but even then, I would think that his parents, who grew up under it, would have been able to tell him about how it was.

      Perhaps he did not believe them, or they were not good at explaining it.

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  • pusikurac

    Karl Marx Was Right!

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  • Radivoje

    Albert Einstein was a communist, and i think he was pretty normal and sane.

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  • maomaomao

    According to a report by the Pew Research Center, on April 2010, 72% of Hungarians say that most people in their country are actually worse off today economically than they were under communism. Only 8% say most people in Hungary are better off, and 16% say things are about the same

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  • JebemJebem

    "A revolution is not a dinner party, or writing an essay, or painting a picture, or doing embroidery; it cannot be so refined, so leisurely and gentle, so temperate, kind, courteous, restrained and magnanimous. A revolution is an insurrection, an act of violence by which one class overthrows another."
    MAO

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  • Sweethearts

    Nothin wrong with being a communist

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  • maomaomao

    Life in many former-Communist countries is worse than 25 years ago, especially countries in Eastern Europe and the Balkans. They have many social problems, including huge corruption, nepotism, and fake democracy.
    Various polls in former Socialist countries prove that the majority of people, in Russia and Eastern Europe, think that life was better before the counter-revolutions and the restoration of Capitalism.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome

    Tell him that communism might sound nice on paper but never works no matter how many times it has been tried. Venezuela, North Korea, USSR, Cuba are all failed states. And it is such a whacky idea that it was always enforced through violence as it can't keep running by its own virtue.

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    • Sweethearts

      Communism works and you fucking know it

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      • BlackCatsAreAwesome

        OK give me an example of a country that works under it.

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      • robit

        Venezuela, bro.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Politics is like a soap opera for the retarted. Ignore it.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I remember a guy I used to know who had a hammer and sickle tattoo from the Soviet Union Flag, he was a douchebag.

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      • The_Loitering_Creep

        I'm with you, Rosie. Intelligent people need to be far more clever than he was, just to have a noticeably creepy edge.

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      • He's Russian and moved to the states when he turned 18 should I be worried about that too

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        • RoseIsabella

          I dunno, how do you feel about Russians?

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          • Just the stereotypes
            He drinks a lot and doesn't really have any emotion outside mad, pissed, angry, and angrier

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            • Legion

              That doesn't sound like a good person to be around. You don't want to be with an angry drunk, as there is a good chance he might get abusive and hurt you. The "Communist" thing is one thing (and it would be a deal breaker for me if a girl I liked suscribed to the ideology), however​, I would be even more concerned about his alcoholism, and his bad temper.

              I'd run away.

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            • RoseIsabella

              Wow, really? I just remember the dude I knew liked to brag a lot, and he kinda embarrassed me when he lied to me about whether or not he tipped the waitress at a place where I was a regular. I knew the waitress so I asked her if he ever tipped her, and when she said no I offered her a tip, but she refused. I asked the guy if he tipped the waitress and he lied right to my face like it was nothing, it was disgusting! Needless to say, I didn't want to go out with him ever again.

              >:-(

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    • robit

      Too bad it ends up affecting everyone's lives.

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      • SmokeEverything

        As it's presented, no. Political TV is WWE for people who think they're too smart to watch wrestling. People have no say in what actually goes on.

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        • robit

          I meant actual politics, not TV.

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          • SmokeEverything

            ah, so you prefer the live version of the dog-and-pony show?

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  • Ellenna

    It sounds as if you're letting yourself be scared by a word and a symbol and you haven't even discussed the symbol with him or you'd know it's not a hook, it's an oldfashioned farming implement called a sickle.

    Ask him to explain his political beliefs to you and then decide if you want to be with him. I've known many communists who were very good people, which doesn't mean I approve of what communist governments have done.

    Open your mind and you might just learn something.

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  • maomaomao

    On June 2009, a survey conducted in Germany showed that 57% of eastern Germans defend the German Democratic Republic (GDR)

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  • robit

    Stay away!

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  • Avant-Garde

    True Communism on paper is the best system. However, we've yet to see true communism put into practice. The type of communism we've seen so far has been very corrupt and totalitarian. Ask him which form of communism it is that he supports. If he goes for the latter, I think you should end it.

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  • Diego35LovesHilda29

    Is he really a communist or just got the tattoo when he was younger and drunk.

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  • Faceless

    your boyfriend is weak.

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    • MicaCigan

      People like you are useful idiots for the capitalist elite

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