My boyfriend is jealous about my sexual past
and when i say jealous, i mean he's literally broken over it.
im not going to go into too much detail, but ive done a lot. pretty much anything you can think of, ive done. except getting fucked in the vagina. i have done anal, though.
long story short, my boyfriend is very insecure because of it and has major retroactive jealousy because of it. he's known about it for awhile but it's gotten worse over the past few months. he feels like he's not the best and wants to be the best and is upset that he wasn't the first to do these things with me. he also doesn't feel like i still have my virginity, but i believe i do since nothing has been in my vagina except fingers. but whether or not i lost my virginity is based on opinion but my own opinion about it is that i consider myself to still have my virginity.
but anyway, all he ever talks about is my past and he vents about it every day. at first i would listen and try to help but it's been about 8 months of this, i don't know what to do at this point. i want to help him, but i don't know how. ive tried literally everything.. but it's just getting worse. im considering breaking up with him because i want him to find someone he can be the best and first for.. but at the same time i love him too much. but is it selfish to not break up with him? or would it be selfish to break up with him?? i don't know.
i feel like im not what he wants in a relationship, and he's insecure because of me. i want him to find someone who can make him feel confident and like he's the best, but at the same time i want to be that person. but it feels like ill never be that person, all because of stupid shit i did when i was a teenager. he deserves someone who he sees as a complete virgin, and i deserve someone who sees me as a virgin. but we've been together so long and we've been through so much,, neither of us wants to face this truth.
thanks for reading this if you made it this far. and if you have any advice, ill appreciate it.
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