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me and my boyfriend are both young and each others first love , we both lost our virginity to eachother and ever since then i just feel like we’ve lost our spark and we aren’t happy like we used to be and he dosent put any effort into the relationship, thoughtful things like flowers or compliments.what do i do?
Then talk to him. It's not abnormal for people to be more romantic and put more effort into what's commonly known as the 'honeymoon stage', which typically begins when the relationship begins and lasts up to a year depending on the people. Often during it people will show a less genuine side of themselves to impress the other. Maybe the so-called 'honeymoon' phase has ended for him and he's not comfortable with the relationship and doesn't feel pressured to keep trying to impress you.
You eventually will always come to this stage no matter who you are with. I feel a lot of young men and women believe that relationships are more like a disney movie but there's something called the "honey moon stage" which is very real. It doesnt matter if you were the hottest sex pistol to ever exist in history this honeymoon stage will never last forever. Whats happening is normal and will always happen no matter who you are with.