Most of my dates have spending problems
Dude here, early 30’s. I’m seemingly a boring person, but I do think ahead of time and I own a nice apartment, nice car and I have substantial savings. Ready to kickstart a family at any moment.
Now to the list of girls I have dated during the last 6 months:
Girl 1: spending problems, frequent traveler with her dad’s credit card.
Girl 2: No spending problems, but she didn’t want to get to know me because of no hobbies in common.
Girl 3: some spending problems, but not extreme.
Girl 4: No idea, as I didn’t follow up after the 1st date
Girl 5: 36 y/o earning 100k+ usd/yr, but living with a roommate because she blows all her money on travels/expensive meals. What the actual…
Girl 6: has 3 horses and 2 dogs that she barely affords to feed so she ends up feeding them the bare minimum… yikes
Girl 7: another traveler. A trip every 2-3 weeks…
While I do agree that traveling is necessary, I would say a decent amount would be twice per year, not every month or every few weeks…
Girl 8: negative net worth, spends money on travel, restaurants, massage, spa…
Now let’s go deeper on girl 8 as she actually left a real bad aftertaste. She went on a trip to Madrid and I spontaneously offered to come along. She declined my offer saying that it’s too early, so I stayed behind and just worked instead. When she came back a week later, she asked me what’s new in my life, to which I replied “nothing, just working as usual”. She called me boring and talked down on me saying “nothing is ever happening in your life”. True, but I’m saving for the future unlike her… She has a negative net worth due to her spending problems meanwhile I have an apartment, car and substantial savings ready to build a future with the right one… None of the other girls insulted me apart from this bimbo
is it normal to keep running into these people? Geez