Living in a extreme dirty house
All my life my mom has failed to clean, making the living room and kitchen extremely dirty. Every time me and my siblings mention it she just brushes it off. We tried to clean/organize the house but its hard to maintain the entire house because she keeps making it dirty with no realization...
Growing up and still now. Its embarrassing. I have no idea why it doesnt click in her head that this house is dirty and that it is not normal. Sometimes she would tell me to invite people over or when my friends would pick me up she would try to invite them in, it made me so mad like seriously how does it not click in her head that this place is disgusting and shouldn't be seen? Anyways I dont know what to do. Its been years.
Also another thing thats extremely weird is that she has "ocd", she constantly washes her phone (even though it broke before because phones shouldn't be washed).. and when she opens doors she would use a tissue. Im just thinking what the heck women. How do you think these small tiny things are dirty but your entire house ur like yeah whatever. PLZZ EXPLAIN. If anyone is familiar with ocd or these issues or had a parent like this omfg. I just need to understand. The only clean place I have is my room. Its so annoying cooking food for myself because of the mess.