It sucks when she no longer sucks.
My wife says that she still loves me and that she hasn't found someone else. She wonders how I could even think of such a thing. It's because she hardly ever gives me a blow job anymore. One of the reasons I married her was the really excellent head she gave me every time we had sex. We've been married for eight years, and we have two kids. She does it sometimes if we get into some sixty-nine. But even that is half-hearted on her part. And the things that turned her on in the past - licking her ass, eating her cunt, sucking her toes - don't seem to get her juiced up anymore. And she won't talk about it. This is very frustrating. I love her. So I don't want to find a side woman or visit a hooker for my blow jobs. I am trying to hang in there. But if she won't, or can't talk about our sex life then our marriage is in serious trouble. She is a great mother and seems very happy in our life as a family. We own our house and we both earn good salaries. I'm unhappy because I'm not satisfied sexually. For me, this has become a big deal. Some nights I just want to slap her around, just to let her know how frustrated I'm feeling. Maybe that would shock her into talking to me about this. You females maybe don't understand how important oral sex is for certain men like me. But I'll bet their are loads of guys out their who understand how fucked up I'm feeling right now. Slapping her around is just a fantasy at this point. But she doesn't open up to me over the next few days then who knows? I sure as hell don't feel normal. I feel like some nut.