It's not wrong, because i'm better

I bet yo Coochie stank 😂😂

Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jo - lene

I'm better than you.

If he leaves her for you, he only loves himself. And he'll stay that way.
If he says negative things about her, he's manipulating you.
If she doesn't work, that's their business. Not yours.
As a matter of fact, their relationship is absolutely none of your business. But if you manage to bag him, you'll be doing the girl's dirty work of taking out the trash for her.

You’re on IsItNormal.com .

I have a feeling that the OP is actually the 'ugly' woman with the partner. Please note the inverted commas around the word 'ugly'. It just seems hard to believe that most people could have such an odious attitude and not be aware of how bad they are making themselves look by defending it.

In my experience, people are rarely aware of how flimsy their justifications are for doing awful things. The sense of superiority and self-entitlement that makes people think it's okay to treat others badly more often creeps up on them insidiously. They get a shock when they are forced to look at themselves and see how unreasonable they are being. They then have to decide either to apologise and try to change their thinking and their desires, to try to strengthen their own case to make themselves seem more reasonable, or to fabricate other ways of justifying themselves.

I am inclined to think that the minority of people who are fully aware of having such flagrant self-entitlement and still think that it's reasonable, were either taught that they were superior to everyone else from an early age, or simply have narcissism in their nature.

There's always going to be someone better than you. So if you think like this... You must live in a world where other people will be constantly taking partners away from you.

I think the whole point of love is being with someone despite their flaws. If I love you, no one can take me away from you. But that's my definition of love. I believe that if you are able to take him from her, ...then it probably means that he never really loved her. (Because if he did love her, it wouldn't matter how awesome you are. You wouldn't have been able to get him.)

People get into unloving relationships all the time. Just because he's with her right now, doesn't mean he loves her. Love gets tested by circumstances and by people like you who flirt with married/engaged men. :-) The couples who stay together and are happy, they truly love each other.

So I say... do your worst. If you're unable to break them up, then he probably really loves her. Then all you can do is deal with it.

And hey, if you are so awesome and cool... Maybe you can get a better man than him?

So you're cool with someone taking your man as long as they're 'better than you'?

If you go through with that shit don't get all upset, and booty hurt when people start calling you a skank-whore, a slut and a home wrecker among other things. Also, once a cheater, always a cheater so don't be surprised if someday he cheats on you, and leaves you for a younger, hotter and possibly skankier version of yourself. You're not that special, chica.