Is this messed up
If you hadnt went to a boxing gym in years and was out of shape and wanted to get back into it and you say to your girlfriend hey hold these pads for me for a few days FOR ONLY just 5 minutes. They say no then you go spar at the gym and just get the shit beat out of you and you feel it's because you werent sharp because you hadnt been hitting the pads. Is that not kind of bullshit that your significant other cant help you with something so simple for 5 minutes a day? I get its not fun for some people to do but its 5 minutes. I would stand on my head for 5 minutes a day if it helped someone its just 5 minutes. Especially if they have nothing going on and you dont ask for much.